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Is It An Abomination? Please You Must Read This!

Just this morning someone was reporting to me that his brother was supposed to meet his(brother) girlfriends folks. On their arrival, he was seriously welcomed and he felt real great, that was in the mom's absence. When the mom arrived, she recognized him to be one of the men who she had sex with when she was on a book tour to Spokane, Washington. The guy supposedly was a gigolo and have been at the woman's service while he was busy flaunting his sexual prowess in guise of a romantic profession(did I hear anyone compare being a gigolo to a spa worker?). With the strange look she had towards him, he vividly recalled and the woman instantly disapproved the relationship. She didn't let her daughter know what was going on but she just told her she'd explain to her later. Another dimension to the story is that they are all Nigerians. What advice do you have for the lady? What do you think will happen if the woman bluntly refuses to approve of the relationship? Do you think the woman should go ahead and open up to his daughter about her escapades? May I quickly add that the father was present that day but hardly understood what was going on, prompting his wife to know what's going on "he's not a good guy and only time will tell" is what he got from her. [color=#990000][/color]

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How do you come to know about this, is it the man in question told you,if yes, he have already let the cat out.

Also they should quit that relationship, because the way I see it now, if the woman in question eventualy come for (Omugwu)she may have another affair with the man.

So let them quit the relationship

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I guess you are yet to experience the real world then. And what's it matter if you don't or do believe it anyway? It's not like I'm seeking credibility. Best if you keep shut than utter crappy trash and don't be grumpy.

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I don't believe your story.

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The guy was a male prostitute and the woman committed adultery by paying for sex outside of her marriage. Lets call a spade a spade. Did it ever occur to you that the mother might worry that the mans past will come and haunt her daughter, so apart from her 'dignity' as u've suggested, she is still a mother looking out for her child. Whats his excuse? He was looking for money? Please, lets not throw stones at any one of them, they are both foul and thats that. Both parties can attempt to justify their actions, and it will all seem valid but like i said earlier, people make varied choices for varied reasons.

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The guy is supposed to tell the tale and she will be left with no positive attributes but shame and rotten dignity, moreover the guy was just paper chasing and the mom was what? I wonder how she will explain that to her daughter as well as her husband.

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The silly woman dug her grave when she didnt let go.

i am looking forward to her reasons except they guy would be 'mature' not to let the cat out of the bag

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I don't believe values don't exist, i  believe that people are faced with harder conditions and are inclined to make varied choices, for varied reason. As for being morally wrong, lol! i doubt i can jump on that high horse, it's just a sad coincidence that one of his ex-clients happens to be his girlfriends mum. It's not like he would have planned it given the opportunity. I believe if he cares about her, he'll come clean to her before the mum says anything. That way, he stands a chance of redeeming himself by taking responsibilty for his choice of profession.

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