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'Is It Compulsory That I Call You Every Day?'

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How can a guy ask his girlfriend, "is it compulsory I should be calling you everyday?" This happened to a friend of mine who is in love with a guy but there is a distance between them so anytime she call the guy he asking him why didn't you call me all this while. He'd answer and say he is very busy. He is always busy, so there is this very day that she call the guy again and as they were discussing on phone the girl was complaining that the guy did not normally call her, the answer she receive from him was that "is it compulsory I call you everyday?"

Does the guy care for her at all or what do you think, forum?

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it something i will love doing as long as long as i know what she thinks of me,but this days if you try calling a girl everyday she will surely make a fool out of you.

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Personally, if i was dating someone, i would really like to hear from them all the time.

Maybe by phonecall or by text.

Its just that its a way of knowing that he is thinking of me.

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u see, sometimes u have to understand this guys, it might not be as a result of lack of love by the guy, it might be his nature of doing thing. it is now left for the lady to try and understand him better. so take ur time to no ur guy better. dont base his love on calling alone, think of other things that best define love.

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Haba, is not compulsory he must to call everyday, a flash or text message can as well be considered.

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is it safe to say women easily get used to a certain way of life? dude prolly used to call her everyday and she wants it to remain that way.

o girl , if u or ur friend no like say the guy no dey call everyday then make she or urself end am. im sure the guy wants it to end anyways.

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@ jkpretty.

Okay oooo. . . . . . bad samaritan

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@ jkpretty.

Believe me I wasn't trying to get at you. It's good that you teach english, we actually need one english teacher on nairaland.

@ olamijuwon

Thanks for taking your time and reasoning for understanding my logic. I also do understand your reasoning too, but i don't seems to agree. My guess is that the so called girlfriend nags like sh*t and that pisses guys off(well, pisses me at least am sure)

@NEHEMS

Your grammar and use of tenses are bad bro (jkpretty abi now, since u be english teacher) Just feel i should let you know before a woman points it out to you bro.

Moreover, calling a girl all the time makes a guy "wussy". Some good "tapping" girls wouldn't like that I bet. It will just look as if you are "chewing gumming" them. So stop calling her.

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[color=#770077]TO BE SINCERED THE GUY IS NOT SERIOUSE AT ALL. FOR ME I CALLED MY GIRL ALMOST EVERYDAY. BECOUSE HER VOICE ALONE ALWAYS MAKES ME FILL HER PRESENT.THOUGT SHE IS VERY FAR AWAY FROM ME NOW BUT WE STLL LOVE EACH OTHER. THANK GOD FOR MOBIL PHONE[/color][color=#990000][/color]

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silly boy, i get your logic but my point is that it seems that the guy does not want anything to do with the girl. period

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@ sillyboy

Sorry, I don't think i have said too much, i've just realised that its not even a typo but a common mistake. & yes o i'm an English teacher, shldn't one be proud of what she read?

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This time, I'm in support of Seun.

@Delegirl: Why would he have to call on a daily basis? I'm not sure how far apart you 2 live, but surely if you're in the same country, it would make more sense to put the "daily call" money to one side, and make a trip at least once a week to visit?

Besides, whatever happened to emails? Daily calls CAN become quite expensive. And of course, if you both live in different countries, the cost of daily international calls can be staggering!

But as Seun said, if you both alternate the calls, wouldn't that make more sense? Starting a relationship with massive bills isn't the way to go. It'll only lead to resentment. Even if he calls you daily, because you insist he does so, what makes you think he's happy?

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I think what the two lack was understanding. She feels like seeing the guy everyday, whereas the guy has something that always occupy his mind that made think less of her.

In my own opinion - I will say that the very best time for them to talk to each other should be at night when every work and busi should have been over.

Well, calling everyday is not bad - and such answer from the guy was totally wrong. cos' if actually he has a family - of course he must atleast find out day by day about his family, I mean call is not that expensive if you cherish what you have.

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He can call her once every two days and she can call him every other day. Equality achieved!

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If you get married you will be seeing and talking to each other every day.

So why can't you call or at least send an SMS message or email every day?

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I don't know about you other members but i call my baby everyday. Someone told me i'm pampering the little lady but i see it as a way of keeping the relationship going.

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Seun. . . . . . abi oooo. But women thinks that man should always do everything to keep a relationship. . . . "when they are always at the driver's seat"

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You should advise your friend to totally 4get the guy because what is the essence of someone whois always busy to call her. it is just plain waste of time and emotions. gud luck to her and i hope she finds some one who will not be too busy to have her time.

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it meanest thou not thast the guy don't care

its just that hes teling the that gel that is yo freind that he's tired fo doin!

Not only i'm i tired of all these "my friend" threads, (who said its not ok if its u), but crowning it up with these miserable tenses is really the headache.

Sorry its grammar, take note

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He must be scared of hearing this kind of grammer

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