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Is It Good To Be A Jealous Lover?

guys,u know ,i use 2 wonder wether its wrong 2 be a jealous lover.fine if u ask me im i a jealous lover? ill proudly say yes.but ill like 2 know ur own opinion on this issue.and i have a double answer question 4 u, ARE U A JEALOUS LOVER AND IS IT GOOD 2 BE A JEALOUS LOVER

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For I Myself, I am a jealous God.

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Why? Who needs unnecessary high blood pressure? It's so funny how some people think being jealous is the ultimate sign that they love their partner. Oh it might be cute in the beginning. . ."Aww, he loves me so much he does not want me out of his sight" but soon, very soon it's gets annoying. Jealousy is childish and it shows how insecure the other person is.

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all i have to say is dat jealousy goes wt love,u'll always be jealous wen u r really inlove,but if u r not u wouldnt mind wen u see ur partner kissing someone else

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No it's not good to be jealous. Love is not envious. check 1 corinthians 13. Love cares for the welfare of the person, be glad for the person even if he/she likes another. When you give love, it comes back to you.

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no, but a lil bit of jealousy is ok

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Yes it is very good to be a jealous lover,how do you expect yourself to be sharing your life partner with someone else,infact it is degrading.But their is also another way that someone should not be jealous,that is if you are not truthful with your partner so you do not have to worry when he or she revenge just because you cheated first. And if you are into production of ponographic films and movies then you can go out with as many type of folks as you needed because you earn a living with it.

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NO FREE UR PARTNER COZ HE OR SHE IS AN ADULT AND SHOULD HAVE KIND OF FREEDOM BASE ON TTRUST

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its good to be jealous, but the problem is being over jealous, it turns to something else, at a time in my life, my boyfriend was jealous and i was enjoyiong it , but it got to a time that it was too much , i couldnt bear any more,too much of evryt thing no good

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If u really LOVE ur partner, der is always a room for jealousy

We can only try as a human, not 2 take it to d extreme which

is quite dangerous

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huh . . .that na sucide oh

besides, old topic!

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@degubi

u re 101% correct.i agree wit u.of wat use is it 2 a relationship if one of d couple is jealous 4 no reason.

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Firstly ask urself why am i jealous? Is my jealousy progressive or retrogressive,is it for my own satisfaction or for his/her own benefit? Are u jealous because u see him/her wasting her time on what will not be beneficial to his/her present or future or are u jealous because he/she is moving up in life or being ambitious and u feel threathened? It all has to do with motives behind our action, even love can have a negative side to it if not done properly,so search ur heart always and ensure that whenever u are jealous it is for the right reasons.

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its not good to be jealous but is good to be possesive

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Nah PATHOLOGIC Jealousy no good as its a Psychiatry symptom.

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it depends on d extent of jealousy.sm pple's display of jealous tend 2 actually b obsession,nd smtyms jealousy destroys relationships dats y trust shuld come afta luv.if ders trust ders no reason 4 u 2 b jealous.

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A true lover will actually be jealous. God being a lover too said He is a jealous God

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Re: Is It Good To Be A Jealous Lover?

« #18 on: Today at 01:33:45 PM »

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Not too bad if the party involve can draw their boundaries.But it sucks when possesiveness comes in

I kind of agree with u

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what's the point in being jealous? like i have nothing better to do with my time than wonder what the other person might be thinking about my bloke! ah, pls o! dont even know the meaning of the word. i cant and havent ever dated someone i can even call mildly jealous, but it doesnt mean they felt lukewarm towards me! not being jealous allows you concentrate on more important things - like really getting in sync with the person's thoughts and feelings.

trust me, it aint useful to be jealous.

PROUDLY UN-JEALOUS!

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@Thionaslim

If you equate jealousy with violence, then it's really bad but if your jealousy=extreme care and love, i see nothing wrong with that. Women suffocate themselves by looking for love in all the wrong places. They usually prefer a ruffneck.

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well it might be good to be jealous, but when you become so possessive that your girl feels your suffocating her without giving her a breathing space then you need to slow down.

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@Thionaslim

Did you say "sometimes"? Well i don't know about that. There was this girl that i gave my heart to once, i was very jealous not because i wanted to hurt her feelings but because i believed i had what it takes to make her happy more than anybody else. Women don't understand that a jealous man is a sign of a good man who really cares about you. A player or a roughneck don't care if you f*cking somebody else, matter of fact that's nough reasons for him to cheat more. A jealous man usually will not cheat on you because he believes no one comes close to you.

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Its natural to feel jealous sometimes over the one you love. but when you can't control it, then it becomes bad.

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omo no need to jealous over a punnana o

if you jealous and dem kill you ontop o.

anoda guy go de shag the punnana while you are gone o

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Good day All,

                    It is great to be part of this forum.

It is good to be a jealous lover at least it shows that you care and appreciate your partner.It is only when your jealous act becomes violent that i believe is wrong.

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Jealousy emmmmmmmmm, i think it's has the bad side and the good side of it. Some chi love love that and some guys do the same too.

But as for me i think is bad, good, ugly etc.

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, moderation in every aspect of life is the key issue

know where to draw the line

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GO AND WATCH THE NOLLYWOOD MOVIE DEADLY PROPOSAL,

THEY WILL BE SHOWING IT ON AFRICA MAGIC ON XMAS DAY

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JEALOUS,NOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

WHY JEALOUS?

U will end up having sleepless nitez.jealousy is bad,it's dreadful and it'not worth it 4 either of us.

HAVE EVER TAKEN UR TYME TO VIEW DA WORLD DA WAY IT IS?IF U HAVENT, THEN LET ME TELL U DAT U ARE NOT ALONE IN DA RACE TO WIN UR LOVER'S AFFECTION.YOU SEE,THERE IS NO NEED TO BE JEALOUS WHEN U ARE SECOND OR THIRD IN HER LIST OF GUYS.

PLEASE,BRO, KNOW WHEN TO BE JEALOUS (when u are finally under one roof).

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Cool when its still mere jealousy, annoying & pissing when it becomes possessiveness.

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No; it is not good; as a ardent believer in freedom, for those that think it is good wait till you are at the receiving end of it, then u will find out that it is not cool. Being a jealous lover shows signs of mistrust of ones partner, and disguised insecurity

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jeal·ous (jel′əs)

adjective

1.very watchful or careful in guarding or keeping jealous of one's rights

2.resentfully suspicious of a rival or a rival's influence, a husband jealous of other men

resentfully envious

3.resulting from such feelings a jealous rage

4.Now Rare requiring exclusive loyalty the Lord is a jealous God

FROM THE ABOVE DEFINITIONS, jealousy can be positive or negative. True love begets freedom and tust. True love is not a policing affair. Have a lovely jealous love!

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I guess it is good to be one so long as you know where to draw the line. Turning into some possessive psycho is overboard oooo.

As to your other question, nope am not a jealous lover/friend/person.

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