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Is It Good To Tell Your Girlfriend How Much You Worth?

I told my girlfriend how much i earn,how much i bought my car and she gets too demanding.If i refuse to give she complains and we fight a lot.The last time i asked her why she likes seeing me she said because shes going to get money from me.Can you please share your view

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@Easybabe and co .

   There is a typical problem in Naija caused by poverty.In places like the UK where men and women have almost equal opportunities only a handful of lazy women care about what a guy has.As far as the guy is not a lazy lout and earns enough to care for himself they don't care what you have.

  But in Naija most girls date guys for money,so if you want to sleep with a girl let her know how much you are worth ,but know that if the relationship continues she will "tax" you endlessly.

In other words be wise and don't do it

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Oh boy run, which kind girl be this one. My friend if you fight becoz you refuse 2 give her money then she's obviously after ur money, and the day you are down, you will see her in the next man's BMW. Carry go my friend, she doesn't deserve your transparency and honesty.

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Depends on the type of woman

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I have always been of the opinion that partners should know how much the other is worth so that both of you can plan together.

If your girlfriend is sincer and genuinly wants this relationship, I guess she'll rather let you both invest in things that will be worthwhile in the long run rather than to go on a shopping spree with your money.

What you should do is not just to tell her how much you're worth but exactly what you think both of you should do with the money. Make sure to include her in your plans and ask for her suggestions.

On the other hand, a lot of women become demanding on their man when they feel threatened, like 'if i don't spend his money, he'll spend it on someone else!'

If you're not that type, sit her down, have a good talk and tell you what, every woman is very good with planning and investing. Just let her be a part of your plans for the future and see how much better that will be.

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I would rather the babe likes me for who i am and not for what i can give her. If she finds out that i'm a pauper and still wants to stay by me, fine, we'll build a life together and when the money comes rolling in, no one can stop me from telling her what i earn and what i'm worth, but if she wants to stay by me because of the money i have and fights when i refuse to buy er things, i'll rather kick her out.

As for your babe, she's a gold digger who will not bat an eyelid or think twice about leaving you if and when things aren't so rosy. Get rid of her fast. That's my two cents in.

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