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Is It Harder To Find A 'good Man' Or A 'good Woman'?

When looking for a serious long term relationship, women often look for a man who will not cheat, who's honest, who is financially stable/has good career prospects and isn't lazy.

Whilst men look for a woman who is not materialistic, a woman who is not a nag, who's attractive/sexy, who's smart and has morals.

(Of course there are more, I'm just giving examples, have anymore, please feel free to post).

Which sex has the harder job in finding these qualities? Men or women?

Is it harder to find a 'good man' or a 'good woman'?

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Good women are harder to find because they can cover up with serious pretence that might take up to 5yrs of courtship to discover.

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It's easier to find a good woman but harder to find a good man.

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I think it is easier to find a LUNATIC than a good woman or man nowadays!

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pls soj, am a pretty and equaually good. am loking for a good and responsible guy so if u are bad just refer me to good one

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they are both as hard as eachother, man or woman

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finding a good woman is almost impossible, infact its been so, even the bible had to lament. 'a virtous woman, who can find.'( proverbs 31:10)

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both are hard to find,but it is mostly the girls that are hard to find.

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pls if u are a good and responsible guy just contact me.

Am a very good lady. so stop all these ur romantic talk

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u no talk true oh!

na lie you dey lie

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@gabe logan

No be true I talk?

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u never talk true yet, amazement ni,maturity ko.

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i know its an expression , so is mine

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when u find 1, u strike his pocket And get rich like John Rockefella

Girls and money!!! they are inseperable girls no fit let rich man go easily

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Finding a good man these days is like finding oil in your back yard.

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I think it's harder to find a good mate than a good human. There are less things I look for in a good human than a mate.

But what exactly do you count makes someone a 'good' human?

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I believe men tend to be more honest, I have heard players admit that they're no good for nobody serious, (of course that's when it's not you they're playing).

Whilst some girls will never ever put themselves down (and why should they?!). We get excuses such as 'I just need somebody to understand me.' etc,

Whilst guys on the other hand actually register they're living a bad lifestyle, and usually are aware the things they're doing are 'socially unacceptable' - they just choose to delay the time when they admit this and change their ways,

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Just hard to find good human, period.

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Another question, does every woman think that they're a good woman?

Because I would say I am a good woman, because I qualify in the typical 'superficial' qualities that are deemed 'good',

However, I don't know of anybody who would say that 'Ya know, Honestly, I'm a piece of crap. No one should date me or take me seriously.'

Even prostitutes don't think they're 'bad women' - they think they're 'good women' doing the wrong job.

Now here's where the definition of 'good' becomes slightly blurred.

I meant it originally in terms of attributes , physical

However, I have known many girls who men would call s***s who have a great personality and head on their shoulders (though they don't use it) and have found them to be great women (obviously when you ignore the things they do),

So, now thinking along the lines of the things women do, is a truly good woman one who is good because of who they are and not what they do e.g. personality instead of how good they cook, clean, handle themselves or vice versa??

Now I would say once again that I am 'good woman' because don't we all like to believe that our individual personalities are special, most interesting, unique and worthwhile?

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People in general find it hard especially if they haven't a clue of what they want or need

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one man's rice is another man's beans,

if a man possess these qualities, does it mean he is a 'good' man ? or thats what you want him to be ?

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Maybe the question should have been,

Do men or women find it harder (go through more relationships) to find the 'right one'?

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