Please peeps i want you all to advise me on what i can do. You may criticise me if i’m wrong, but honestly i’m really getting tired of all these love-quarrels my babe and i always have.
I have been very busy studying for my exams for the past month or so. I try to talk to her at least for 10 minutes each day. Recently, i had a look at my life here. I noticed that i don’t have a social life. All my days are spent at skool, even on weekends. I wake up each day, have my bath, eat, go to the skool library to study, go for classes, head back home, eat, and sleep. Same process the following day and on weekends. My baby told me that she feels are hearts are growing apart, cos i really do not have anything to tell her about myself anytime i call, and i told her i dont like that one bit. I said maybe it was due to the fact that i was studying too hard and i need a break.
Yesterday, i was with a couple of my dudes. We were working on an assignment which was due yesterday and we had been at it for hours. I had ealrier in the day sent my babe a text, tel,ling her that i was so busy and that if i could, i’ll still call her. around 6pm our time here(which was 11pm min naija), she called me. I told her i was still busy and that i’ll talk to her today. She then told me that she loves me. Why i decided not to reply her back i don’t know, but she said i didn’t reply. I always say so anytime we want to hang up, but maybe due to the pressure of what i was doing and being in the midst of other guys, i decided not to. When i hung up, knowing the kida girl she is, i sent her a text telling her i lovd her too. I thot it had ended there.
This morning, she woke me up telling me she didn’t like what i did, she was heartbroken, this, that. I was like why was she raking for me just because i didn’t reply her, but she kept on raking. I said i was sorry and she hung up.
When i called her again this evening, she continued. She told me that the way i was behaving, that it seemed as if i was with another girl and that i didn’t want to offend the said girl, that i should put myself in her shoes, and that she wonders why i cannot say “i love you” to my fiancee infront of my friends. I was pretty much getting annoyed at that point, but i tried not to shout on her. she went on saying that sending that text even added salt to injury. I told her i was sorry. I thot it had ended, on my way home she sent me a text, and i quote
“Think about it, No matter how busy u are right now, take 5 mins to think about your actions yesterday. Knw that my whole weekend is terrible cos of this. I hope i get over it on time.”
I’m really getting depressed about the whole attitude thingy. I know it’s not easy yfor her, as it is not easy for me either for us to be so far apart from each other, but i’m getting tired of always telling her i’m sorry over every incident, even if i’m right or wrong. All these lovey-dovey behaviours of hers, i’ve tried talking to her about them, but it seems she’s adamant.