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Is It NAIRA Or Love? What Does A Girl Need In A Relationship

i am wondering if one can keep a good relationship without being rich because a lot and lot of money is needed to enjoy a relationship

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money for me is love, how do you tell a girl you love her if you cannot buy her a rose or take her out for a date, lets face it to express love one needs money, the only part of love for me that one can express between lovers without money is sex, every other thing you get with cash, a girl needs to keep looking good, if you cannot fend for her atleast to an extent then dats up to you, it will only take a girl that already has cash and is satisfied with what she has to stick by you even when you do not have, lets leave morals and face reality, who no wan look good, stay neat, and stuffs, and talking about loving a guy without cash, most of this guys will always tend to see better things when the cash comes, its one risky business to stick by a guy with the hope that when he gets cash things will get better, you may not even be the one there to enjoy the cash again.

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@poster

Both matters in a relationship

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@POSTER na on judgement day we go get answer to that your question.

Even the girls sef dont know what they truely want. if they see MONEY they will say they want LOVE. if they see LOVE they will demand for MONEY.

If they cum see the both they will say they need HUMOUR,RESPECT,CARE, or they will say "I AM CONFUSED JOH"

Girl? never know what they want.

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C'mon, money rules everything. No money, no love. Gals want it in 50:50. 50% money & 50% love.

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My dir, 2 me, i tink MONEY generates luv.

So dont get it twisted NO MONEY NO LUV.

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i can see we got some poor men in the house but nevertheless, i love my man because of him, because there is no amount of money that can buy the way i think or my thought. he has one thing to offer me which i actually wanted, his love, his respect, and a future together with me which i think is more than money.

all the girls that love because of money, am very sorry for them bcoz their mind, thought, body and their entire life is been bought with a corruptible price.even if i wanna love anybody for money,not a chicken change,and not a small boy, people like the first man of the country, what are the ministers and commissioner doing why will i date an accountant for his salary or my school mate for his pocket money. hell no. I'll rather choose the long lasting one than the miserable life at the end one

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@both of them work hand in hand, anyone that says otherwise is wrong,

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Lovestinks sed d truth, She kept it real, Most of these girls will always say love, but later dey wil say der is no love without finance, d girls dat trully love their guys r few and far between, most of these girls r after d pay, dats y i luv dat freestyle's song, cant remember d name but d chorus goes sumtin like dis, AFTER I HUSTLE MY MONEY, U GO FOLLOW ME CHOP AM, NA ME BRING U COME LAGOS? ABI I RESEMBLE YA FATHER?, he told d truth der, most of these girls r just wit u if u got d money, even if u dont spend, dey wil still hang on hoping that u will spend on dem, damn,

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@lovestinks

I will run away from someone like you because your love can only stay with me as long as my money is still bubbling

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nice thrend here, this topic i like, for those of you who say love first.get real, its too much mills and booms talkin.if u know wat i mean.someone once sang "we in a money world", and for the realist like me thank you, though its true money cant buy love.lack of it will kill love.4 me money its important cos i call it insurance in a relationship.cos when i date a guy with money and things break up i always ve fond memorie.expensives gifts,romantic dinners,shopping etc, i think i will be more heartbroken if it was a broke Bottom relationship.PLUS ve seen cases of girls who stuck with broke guys but when the greens(money)started comin the guys changed.

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that is very silly of her.

i think she really didnt love u cuz if she really did,she wouldnt have left you for money.

i think money is nothing in a realationship,maybe is important in marriage

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guys, the real fact is that the two goes together. a relationship may be going on well from the start but with time the need for money will come in, and could be from either side.

back in school i was actually going out with a girl when suddenly i broke up for another because the new one pays more. it's true life story

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i think love is the main and important thing in a relationship but most girls girls dont think like that,all they think of is money and that is not good

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i dont blame our girls pally, you know what it takes for a chik to clean up and look cute for a guy to catch a glimpse of her twice. someone like, my phoebia for a girl are body odour and senseless dressing. sometimes unknowingly our girls put money before LOVE

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@dere am saying this on the bases experimental truth,Whatever foundation u lay ur love or r/ship on so shall it stand.Am not condeming the role of money in a r/ship but affirming postive truth that it shouldnt be the foundermental base on REAL LOVE, i want u to note that there r series of love like cupboard love,wait&get love etc but should not mixed with real love which is a longterm prospect and project as the case might be.so if u feel its a girl's idealogy wel,  ur choice is ur wish vice versal with it people will learn from u.

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Not In Todayz world.Luv Only Works Out Where Its Obvious That d Mony Will B Forthcomin.

Why I Say So Is That,Babes Thisdayz Try To Direct Their Heart Where The Money Is,Or Where There Is A Possibility Of Mony Showing Up In The Not Vry Far Away Future

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You guys day make me laugh, with out money how will you buy the ring at the first place. job,car, etc it all ends up with money.

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na today who ever want's money for love shud come over to me.i'll buy your love and that of your friends now cuz no be only u want money. i've loads of it(TOO MUCH MONEY) and spare some for your friends,

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i dont think sex is an issue in a relationship cos love minus sex is equal to "YOU KNOW WHAT", TO me sex is fun even with a chik i am not dating

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yeah! I forgot that one. Thanks.

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It depends on the woman. It could be love, affection or money. Basically the same thing a man would want in an affair (except the money).

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well i some how agree with u,but one question i will never stop asking,since my last experience in an affair is just that,

WHAT DOES A WOMAN WANT IN AN AFFAIR.[plzzzzzzzz people i want u to give me a clue],because this whole thing don tire me oooooooooo.

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Not all women are like that. Most of the time women know what they want in a relationship. If a woman is in love, money won't be an issue but sometimes guys tend to confuse us. When you start dating a guy he spoils you with gifts, sweet words etc but when the thing becomes a little bit serious, he'll automatically reduce the mesure with which he'd been worshipping her.

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guy i feel you,i think from my personal experience too i have found out that some girls dont know why they are in a relationship, because no matter what a guy does to make the chik satisfied she cant just cos of their nature, guy i don tire for naija girls ooooooooo

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to be sincere with u people,experiences and research has shown that,atimes u discover that non of those things appeal to a lady in a relationship after all,because if u look at it most ladies do not really know what they want in an affair,especially juvenile cheeks,my reason 4 saying this is not far-fetched,which is just the fact that there are relationships u will discover that has both the love and the money,i mean the guy spends 4 the girl and also love her like mad,but u will be baffled to discover that this same lady being showered with cash and love by the guy,might still end up with a street-urchin,that is not even up to her dieing lover in the firstplace,i do not know whether u people would agree with my perspective ooo,but that is what i feel any way,so by this one would keep wondering what a lady really want in an affair,is it money,well if u give her enough,she might take that ur money and be pouring it on a riff-raff,is it love,hmm,experiences have shown that it is when u show a lady that u love her,that is when she would start misbehaving,because the love u have 4 her would get into her head,and on the issue of sex as well,if u give her enough of it,she might say u want to kill her with sex,u want to just use and dump her,bllaaaa,blaa,and again if u try to treat her with dignity,by not using her any how sexually,when u try to keep he,hmmm,she might just go to someone else to look 4 pleasure,saying u are a mumu,etc,so my people the whole thing is really confussing.

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do you now mean that poor people dont romance or what

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True. Beauty is more of an inner thing.

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No, let's face facts and ask ourselves this simple question (especially the brothers who do most of the spending in a relationship): Is there romance without finance in nigeria these days?

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my own opinion is that the 2 goes 2gether.its like car and fuel like someone earlier said. but nowadays girls seem to forget about love totally and put the money first.

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@ nurenga :u kiddin rite? money is prerequisite to love.

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Thankx akani for those words of encouragement and i think all our chiks have read this too, but i am sure that money will go a long way in determining who or what type of wife or husband one marries

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My perception is that i strongly believe that both parties r seprate entities in relationship in the olden days but merginalization has taken control in respect of the issues.Love should not goes alonside with money simply because am everlasting relationship deals with the lifespan of man and money is just a particle to flourished inflow and outflows a man.A particle as observe can flow up and down even away!supposing the love were based on money, when money flies away what happen?definately the love varnished and a REAL based love is to stay 4ever regardless to temptaion an tribulation periods.

It is of no suprise to me as many broken homes can't withstand situation changes they all end up in divorce simply that their based -love is on Money- (particules that flews away at any given time).

Thats why the premodial relationship last longer than this present era.

Money should not goes alongside with Longterm relationship due to its adverse effect which we all aware of but could only be shown as a sign of appreciation to both parties involved in the relationship and to smoothing the uneasiness in the relationship.SO if anyone think money should be the foundermental factor in the longterm r/ship, oh, the adverse effect may be brutal.

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if i do not care about love, that means i don't care about my self. and money doesn't control me, i control money

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If they are inseparable? whats there to bridge?

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I THINK SOME GIRLS THAT MARRIED FOR TRUE REASON MAY BE POOR BUT I AGREE THAT HAPPINESS IS EQUALLY IMPORTANT JUST AS MONEY.

BUT IS IT POSSIBLE TO BRIDGE A BALANCE BTWN THIS INSEPERABLE BUT RARE COMBINATION?(LOVE & NAIRA)

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@faa & mubowa

Do u really think babes of 2day care abt luv mor than they care abt money?Well i dnt blame u ladies,u r only xpressing ur positions in life.But check out wat reality has,Most of those that married 4 luv n r living below the poverty line or in poverty, end up havin their marriage shettered because the money isnt forthcomin.So it all depends on MONEY, !

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not that i have all that money but i need my man's love, and care. money can now come after. money cannot be compared with happiness

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i understand that love is important in a relationship but i have seen a lot of broken marriages because of complains from  wives that their husbands cant take care of them,

somebody tell me, WHERE IS THE LOVE

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yeah.

My point is that it's possible to be loved when you are poor or rich. Money can come anytime. That's the reason why I think love is much more important in a relationship.

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A disease that can get cured.

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i also beleive that money is life because yoruba proverb say poverty is like a disease

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Yeah money is important but it should not be the foundation of a relationship. I think every girl needs love more than money even if they don't think so.

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@faa

In 2days world,no matter how deep the luv goes,it needs money.its jst like a car n fuel.

i doubt if love is as necessary as money 2babes thisdays

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I assure you love is more important. If you are in a loveless relationship where money is present, you still feel poor.

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Money Happens to b almost everything in this life.

so its obvious that they need money to keep the relationship alive.As we all know that a higher percentage of babes thisdays will giv u unlimited luv as far as the pay is there.

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