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Is It Ok For The Woman To Say "i Love You" First? And How Soon Is Too Soon?

Ok girls, you've been dating a guy for maybe like 2months,, and you know you have feelings for him, is it ok to say "I love you" first or wait for him even though you know he has feelings for you? And how soon or what time frame is good to say "i love you".

Guys how would you react if a girl tells you under these conditions?

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To me its ok for her to say it if she really feels dat way...sumtimesd its just too difficult to hide your feelings no matter how much to try to do that...its a free word say it ..if he dsn't feel d same way it doesn't matter at least u were able to free ur mind...

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Dude, i love you on the first date is most likely infatuation but after 2 months and nobody is loving, hmm or somebody is loving and afraid to say!!!

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Of course there is a time to show ur feelings! Wat has 9ja got to do with it!

So will tell someone u love her on d 1st date?

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99999999999ja. Ha!!!. Na wa o. So there is a time to show your feelings? No wounder relationships are so unreal. Now i know why pple pretend. 9ja i hail o.

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Naija men and women are always doing stuffs differently from the world.

Haba, a simple talk like i love you now has a perfect timing and must be said by one partner before the other follows. Haaa.

No wonder we break up easily because we are still in stone age.

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it ok but dont let him know or he will just make a fool out of you

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Thanks guys, Though I expressed my feelings to him when he wanted to walk away because he said he wasn't sure what I was feeling for him and age so I told him I have feelings but never said "love".

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It is okay to express oneself but if you don't want to lose a naija man swallow that your love declaration until he declares his because he will pick race when u do first. Don't you know that you need wisdom with a Naija man?

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