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Is It Ok To Show A Guy How Much You Love Him?

My boyfriend and I have broken up like five times in the past two months. Two days ago it happened again and being so angry and frustrated I sent him a hateful text (a really horrible one).He didnt reply and now I regret my action.

I still love him and want to be with him. I went to his elder sister and best friend (seperately ) and told them to intervene, cos I feel thinks are out of hand.

Now I'm afraid he might view my actions as desperate.If we come back together, I also fear,knowing how much I love him, he might not respect me again. What do I do?I'm a basket case right now

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wht can a guy do to please a lady in dis world?.there is a thread here-a gurl sayin her bf was asking 4 sex almost all d time,bt she doesn't wanna av sex with him.Now here we r with another bed-bug sending foolish msg to her bf,jst because she respected her as a person,not wat u ga in ur body.

If am d guy-i will deff get back to d relatnship & f***k da hell out of yo & bounce.

Y-me-do u now see ma reason y i said women r not meant to b treated like a princess?y'all dnt knw wats rite? jst using those pencil jean to cover da bad part.y'all really need help

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You called your boyfriend a loser because he PRESERVED you? And you waved your ex to his face? That means you've been phoney, that means you've been playing him, and you say you love him! I cannot find any correlation with love in your actions. I think you're just tying the young man to your aprons probably because he got something you CRAVE FOR but at the same time he doesn't have enough to make you fall in lv with him; he boosts your street cred, nothing more. You do not love him at all, you just dont want to be LONELY without him.

Sit down and deal wiv the truth FIRST

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If the text was that bad, I don't think I will come back if I were in his shoes.

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@ poster

u dey call love like say na beans, make she get belle first then u go no weda she go show u love of pain

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why on earth would a guy get trapped in such an abusive relationship?@ poster are you a virgin or you are trying to be one?why wont i Bleep my girl,even if she hasn't had sex before?men should take a clue from this experience of her poor boifriend and insist on having sex with their girlfriends at least to measure the dept of their so called unconditional love to us.the text message you sent to the poor boi is more destructive than weapon of mass distruction.go and bang the hell out of your boifriend,so that your relationship will know peace period.your relationship lacks quality sex, go give it to him now.

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Hey, u jst av to meet with him and appologise then change some attitudes.Also,tel him hw impotant is he to uu.

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babe the only way he'll take u back without holding a serious grudge against u is if tell him how important he is to u. forget all that yarns about him takin u for granted cos if he cares abt u he wont. besides we guys always love it when our egos are stroked

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If i should recieve that kind of text message,i will walk and never look back or make with you then ask for sex. . . When the did is done "na exit" sharply. . .

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If u still love ur guy,u both can still make it work ok.Personally,i cant take such an insult from a lady,n it wil take only d grace of God for me to even return her call except i love her,but everybody aint same ok.Pray his heart gets softened,n when it does,u better apologise to him n be good,n never make d mistake of sayin shits about ur ex,cos it really kills love

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So sorry,didn't get to read ur post,just acted on the topic.My badd

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It depends on how close the two of u are to each other,else d guy will capitalize on that and take advantage of u,n u'll b headin for heartbreak.So be careful

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If he sent you that text would get back with him? There you go.

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The chances of him getting back with you are very slim because the text you sent to him really degraded him as a man

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if i were him i would never get back with you

not after respecting your wishes and not having sex with you

and you used that against him. some people don't and will never

know how good they've got it.

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Sure the best advice you could get. If he doesn't come back you will need it, if he comes back you will need it more.

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Thanks a lot you all.And I do hope we get back together.I'll listen to your suggestions and work on myself.

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If I were u boyfriend, GOD knows I'd av left you a long time ago. . .

Since u're both used to break & make ups, he'll surely take u baq. But things like that aren't good for a healthy relationship.

A Word Of Advice:

Consider the reaction of every action you take & get geared 4 the consequences. Shame shouldn't be much of a problem to you right now, getting ur man should. . .

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Oh yes, one more thing poster. befoe you even start with anything. just admit defeat to him since you love him. Go and apologies and tell him that its your fault. Do this and than start over.

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crazykid, thanks

but am a female

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how old are you?

How old is he?

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christ, i am not trying to make you feel guilty but you were just too wrong. If he should come back to you which i pray by Gods grace he should you have some serious habit you need to change there girlfriend.instead of going into an argument why didnt you talk to him cooly about it.If there is one thing men hate it is to make them feel they are less important.

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I do the making up most

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The last fight was understanding

The other breakups were on the same issue

We have been together 4 three years

And yes, I think the text disrespected him as a man.

He never for once asked me for sex the entire period we were together and I used that against him

I called him a looser and told him I was glad I never did it with him cos I still had feelings for my ex.Which is a big lie and I regret it seriously

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I will be right back with a few tips.  I just need to step away from my desk for a few minutes.

just answer a couple of questions

What was this last fight about?

What were the other breakups about?

How long total have yall been together?

Who does the making up mostly?

Did the text disrespect him as a man?

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Girl cool down! He has not come back yet and you are thinking of the next action to take, i think you are choleric and you take actions too quickly, you need to work on this, try and be patient with your guy and avoid throwing tantrums as much as possible, if he becomes back to you, try and be cool this time, if he sees positive changes in you, he will respect you.

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I think there is one thing you lack in your relationship and that is understanding.i will get back to you later

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