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This is how they met, the guy came as a player, but some how, love arested this guy and he later confess his mission to the chic,

Now he can't stay for a day without this chic, but the chic is still having this doubt base on what he told her> The guy has abandon thier house and trying to live with this chic.

My question now is,

Is it okay for a guy to live in his chic'shouse? even when the chic is trying to let him know that its can't work that way, the guy is still like he can't stay afar from the chic.I mean the rent is being paid by the chic and the relationship is just 2 month old.

Please adivce is really needed,

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if guys can go this far, how then will one know the right person? are u saying we should still go on  testing and testing, oh my God this is serious,

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That is why you have to carefully study your partner. Only over time will you find thier true colors.

Watch and listen. Listen and watch. Make sure the actions match the words and the words match the actions.

That is why he should continue to stay at his own place.

Most people can keep the fake them going for up to 6 months. The worse of the worse pretenders can fake up to 1 year.

Watch and listen. Listen and watch.

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Yes men can go this far.

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Believe me baby! We can go this far. I have gone as far as meeting a girl's family, from the youngest to the their oldest great grandfather just to show her I was serious which I wasn't, so you see that is a far cry from what I did.

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Your friend is on a roller coaster ride to "HURT-VILLE"

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What sounds too good to be true usually is. From my experience, being a player means you go the extra mile to sway someone else, particularly someone who thinks they are smart, to your side by exhibiting daunting and almost unbelievable acts.

The guy telling him he's a player and that he's ready to be with the girl, is section 25, sub-section 1 of being a PLAYER CONSENSUS CONSTITUTION.

Spare me the details, he's playing the girl on a different level where she'll be hurt and dropped like a bad habit.

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The guy telling him he's a player and that he's ready to be with the girl, is section 25, sub-section 1 of being a PLAYER CONSENSUS CONSTITUTION.

@ Theseeker,

My prayer is that God will change things, coz if my friend is heartbroken again, she will never hook up with any man,

Can guys go this far ?

AM REALLY SCARED

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I have kept a relationship for 3 good years before my ex girlfriend shown her truly colour, it was as if I was dealing with a devil and being in Hell then. we had 1 year of sweet relationship, 2nd year of little boring and fighting and 3rd year of war from her before I ran away, resulting in 3 times slap in 3 different locations at her fault which made me ran away, she was stuborn, wicked ,don't care and all these started showing up in a year letter after knowing her

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keep ur fingers crossed

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no be small thing my dear, we ve talk and talked

My frend call yesterday , saying before she return from work he had prepared meal and keep for her, it is well oh

We are waiting to see the end of this love coz my advice to her is not to give in all.

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Whew, the foolish things men do for the sake of woman. Everybody is claiming to be a player. which kin player be this one again?

this is a pure case of the hunter becoming the hunted

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@ Poster, i agree with sistawoman, completely! Tell whoever is involved to 'shine there eyes' and stop trying to believe that this is the real deal, cos it's not.

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Oh i have had one of those. . . . . . . . RUN RUN RUN RUN

Ask him to contiune staying at his house and visit yours. Tell him that you would like to know him in his own space and not yours and that you would like for him to get to know you in yours. That you love him very very much and have no desire to look elsewhere but that each person should maintain thier own space. Dont let the free labor distract the girl. Because she will be sorry she opened her door to him and will start to dislike him when she gets up for work and he still lays there.

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@biola,

still counting abi?

only God knows how many ppl u don do meet the parents with.

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do u know how many girls get to meet the parenst andstill end up being gf's?

@ Izeek

That is true, well if a guy can fake to a stage of washing her chic clothe/panties and i mean even going xtra mile of maybe doing almost all the demostic work um,

Well since the world has turn into someother thing we can't really know when one is faking or real,

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Well there no certainties that because she has been introduced to the family she will evetually be a part.

do u know how many girls get to meet the parenst andstill end up being gf's?

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early stages of a relationship,

u wanna spend all ur time with the person.

that dont mean he loves u or that hewont leave at some later point.

ifu let him, thats becuase u want it not because his intentions are noble.

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its just 2months like u said,

u can't tell what feelings he has right now.

even himself might be confused.

Yeah, to me i don't just have a say, coz they guy is over good, he take the girl to show all his family,

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its just 2months like u said,

u can't tell what feelings he has right now.

even himself might be confused.

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