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Is It Okay To Approach A Girl On The Street?

I just wanted to know how yall ladies feel about a guy walking up to you on the street for a conversation. Like trying to talk to you before he gets your number,

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@topic, opportunity knocks bt only once. As a girl, if u ignore a guy who walks up 2 u in d street nt necessarily 4 direct toasting bt just 2 chat up and get ur contact at d end and mayb dat same guy was supposed 2b ur MR' RIGHT, dont u tink u may neva meet d person again in life and dat's opportunity u av just lost. It does nt really matter. U can meet ur spouse anywher and anytim. Note dat.

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@topi

Nothing wrong with it, it just depends on one's approach, after all, you can't meet everyone in church

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it's better for the guy to pretend to run into the girl at her destination, or somewhere else. it just doesn't feel nice when a guy stops you on the road and starts hitting on you. if a guy takes the time to watch a girl or follow till he can stage a meeting, she would feel more respected even if she knows he planned it.

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It is ok but u ave got 2shine ur eye as all that glitters is not necessarily gold

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^^ not ur fault

im the one that aknowledged your existence

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Are you talking to ayettymama like that?

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Only Naija girls will make a big deal about a guy approaching them on the street. Where else is he supposed to approach girls? After all, you know people by meeting them first, whether it happens on the street or in your living room, what difference does it make? And how does it affect the quality of the person who approached you on the street.

Some of y'all girls really need to remain in the village, for real.

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loool

i will neva go for a guy that chirpses me on the street!

what do i look like??

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@cyberG, i 2nd u, u make sense. But i dnt tink the girls will wnt 2b wooed in their father's house. They ar jst 2 shy enuf 2 admitt it.

@all, Jst imagine a guy in his hummer jeep stopin 2 woo a 9ja gurl nd u tink she won't oblige? U gurls shud stop being conceited.

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Now tell me pls where is the most decent place to talk to a boo?

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i find it odd, talking to a gurl on the street

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That's how i'm also viewing it.

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where u meet someone doesn't really matter but what matters is ur approach and u well of speaking

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Also is it right to toast a lady in d church? 4 instance i went 4 a visit somewher n met a lady on d strt dat i like wat offends hv i commited to walk up to her n knw n if possible get her contact?u don't nid to toast u just hv her contact,talk to her like 2 or 3time den toast her.

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u wish, congeal will not kill u

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twizzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy

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looool. call me now now loool and beg me

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dont do it again. oya go n sleep

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denzel u no take style sound lame at all, u just lame completely, or was that a joke?

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shut up and get off NL. dey dnt need ur opinions go do beta things

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successful accomplishment to picking up women's number would require her to be in the right state of mind. street pick-ups should be discouraged as u dunno wots on her mind. maybe she got evicted ysday. maybe her poor doggie died ysday. maybe she has a man. maybe shes rushing somewhere for a job interview. with all tthese going thru her mind the last tin she wants to hear is your corny one-liners. so i suggest u carry ur game to the playground like church, clubs, school.

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with better things to worry about, some people still have problem with something so trivial as if they are still in secondary school.

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what are u feeling like? Ms Jackie Chan?

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The girls that said same in their early 20's are still waiting for mr right in their 40's.

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any guy who approach me on the street is doing it at his own risk

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as long as she is not a street girl please very important

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Some ''    ''  ''  Offices, Schools, Church, Gym etcetera.

If You must chat up a Lady on the street, Do it with Class.

Don't just whistle 'pss pss' and limp like a Chicken with a broken limb

While You struggle to cover the space between You both.

Infact, Do Not ask a Lady out on the street. Pay her a compliment  and hope

to see her again or get informations about her . . . .If You Don't, Let her Be.

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if it is for the first time nope, but if both of you have been c-ing each other then i say yes

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Come to think of it, where else is appropriate and dont tell me clubs cos I hate shouting CAN I HAVE YOUR NUMBER in someone's ears who your imagination thinks is pretty under dark lights.

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N they 're doing the best thing.

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ohh I get it we are talking of street markers here

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Only Nigerian men do that, no other men in another part of the world does that.

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welcome to the 21 century my dear,

people meet nywhere nytime anyhow

even this forum you will be surprised to hear peeps did wed from this fora

we do not have time to meet the trditionl way

I dont even have time to sleep myself

eyi eyi muv wif tymz

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Your presence has been noticed . . .Oya, comot make I see better Pipu.

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whats an iroko tree dude?

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Why won't you be impressed? Obviously u ve not met an experienced pick-up artist.They can chat-up woman in labour.

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^^

Or ontop of an iroko tree

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A good relationship deos not depends on where you met, you can meet your spouce in a swimmingpool.

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@Op if dat's where u meet her then that's it. . .

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its your approach that matters if you 're confident and suave i think you can approach a girl anywhere and in any circumstance

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I've had random men approach me in the street before and it is pretty creepy, actually. I mean, how

can you know that you would like to get to know someone better when you have only just laid eyes on them?

Maybe if you pass someone on the street everyday and recognise them that way, it might be less weird, but still.

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I wont actually be impressed

it has shown the guy is quite shallow

or is he Hot?

why is he rushing to random women in the street??

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