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Is It Possible To Find A Girl That Is Trustworthy Nowadays?

Is it? I told my parents I'm not getting married cos I've looked around and heard stories abt Women in the 21st century. And it seem that finding a woman that u can trust wholeheartedly is extremely rare nowadays. IF she is not marrying u for the benefits(Tiger Woods wife), then there has to be some other hidden agenda. Please dnt insult me o!! #justmyopinion. I haven't given up on relationships yet but,

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It's not common to find trustworthy humans.

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pastor? u be christian? lol u wey look like alhaji

go to ur nearest moshalashi. i dunno if they perform deliverance there.

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It is difficult to get a real girl these days, but believe me there are still good girls. A friend of mine just found one and funny enough she never knew the touch of a man. She is naive in that respect and is a medical doctor. This chic has been in school for six years no by friend. Look wellmy friend.

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with the current age of Blackberrry

sorry u cant find no trust worthy women, except those ladies (from my mama,thru my sisters to my, **coughs* sexylo)in my life anyway

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hmm UAE, young and handsome and u can't find a wife? hahaha u must be cursed or something.

at least, aren't there arab women there? burqas, faithful and all?

true.

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Omo if na Lagos you they think say you go see,

wait wait waitin you call am TrustWorthy, abi TrustWaitin?

ha! ha! ha! , you de joke!

you no go see! no be for Nigeria not to talk of Lagos.

just forget that one. ,

for now omo work smart make you get better job make you fit make raba then the rest go follow including the lady wey you they fine,

but no bi trusthWowo no bi only Trusthworthy,

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You seem too afraid to even try your foot in the water. You can't just assume women

are unreliable or because you have been told so by other people. You got to try and see,

have an experience of your own, even if you get hurt in the process you will learn better,

you can't  just follow the crowd, someone experience can not necessarily become your

own reality.

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Marriage is first a self imposed call to service unto God. U meet a girl U take her to God before men and tell Him U want to love her like Christ Loves the Church. U meet a guy and U agree to follow Him to God and before men, tell Him U want to submit to him as Christ desires His Church to submit to Him.

Trust is like courage. Courage is the strength to take the bold step in the face of fear. It is not the absence of fear. Trust is the willingness to expect people to be honorable in their dealings with U, even tho they can still let u down.

Now the good part is we attract what we expect and mirror what we respect and when people see our character as compelling them to be accountable to us they either live accountable with us or avoid us consciously, subconsciously or unconsciously.

U shouldn't stereotype all girls as being unworthy of trust. Admitted the rate of wanton living among our girls that renders them untrustworthy is on the rise and they have the encouragement of many selfish boys, but then U should renew Ur mind in trust in God that u can find the exception to the order of the day and Urself be the exception to the order of the day among Ur gender.

Expectations are very powerful. Fueled with faith or fear they will bring forth what they are focused on.

U should have faith and act in faith.

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Pls don't gt married coz there's no trustworthy lady anymore or if u don't mind marrying my grandma i think u ought to trust her.

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different people with their different opinion.pls dont get married o.u are too immature if u are still thinking dis way.

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ya ur wife definately

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There is just get your mind off the negative side of them.

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A thief thinks everyone else is a thief.(I tink Oscar Wilde or Bernard Shaw said dat), u can marry from the 10th century.

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You haven't given up yet on relationships but what?

Well, don't loose hope, ladies also ask the same question, is it possible to find a trustworthy man nowadays? The answer is yes but don't expect a perfect person. The trustworthy person you seek may lack in certain qualities or things. E.g. level of education, religious affinity, tribe, rich or poor e.t.c. Once you are ready to reduce the standard, i am sure there are more trustworthy guys just as there are more trustworthy girl out there. Keep search and pray. You may find your other half sooner than later.

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