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Is It Possible To Love 2 Guys Or Girls At The Same Time ??

I'm kinda thinking about this..is it possible to love two guys at the same time or love two girls at the same time.. for me 100% i will say 40% is kinda possible and 60% ain't possible.. could you guys prove me right or wrong

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guys am also kinda confused,i had to google & find the answers..i just found out that my girlfriend didnt break with her so called ex,i asked the reason why & why she kept it a secret..she told me that she also loves the other guy.

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Love can be different and equal, so it is possible.

http://www.mynewhitmanwrites.com/2012/01/knowing-your-partners-personality-type.html

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Well i have read most of these comments and wish to ask your opinion about my problem:

I am in a relationship (long distance) for a couple of months we still see each other on occasions when we visit and talk nearly every day, i know i love her but the problem isnt the distance but the girl i have loved for about 4 years. I see her nearly every day but she has a boyfrend(my best frend) ,they have been together for 5 years and live together(happened recently) i know she loves me too(she said that herself) and have been sneaking around her boyfrends back( only once since i have a girlfrend). I know that i love them both but with one i have some serious history but with other seems like we could have serious future. I am stumped. Please reply with your thoughts on my situation. Thank you

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The difference between like, love and lust is not much. You can never be too sure of the stage you are with each of your relationships.

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Hey, thats more like keeping a spare tyre for the drive. You cant say that way, thats unfair,

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this is for maja maja. I can not tell you what to do or how to go about doing it. What I can give you is my opion to your situation. Be thankful that she is honest with you. Those WOMAN are rare and a dying breed. She must love you because she has been honest with you. Honestly when someone is that upfront with you thats love, they love you enough to confide in you and not want to hurt and descredit you. I feel you when you say she might have unresolved matters with this man for this is true. I love two men and one I find to be better than another but I can not help but love them both equally and internally. I am trying to figure out myself why I am plagued with these discerning feelings. I feel like I myself have some unfinished buisness in order to actually be able to continue on in my entirety. All I am trying to tell you is follow your heart and decide responsibly. For matters of this nature someone will wind up being on the wrong end of the road.

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Okay I'm a real woman so I going to keep it real. For those who clearly can not read and like to lavish in stepping away from the topic go maintain some form of sense. Second off if someone has never experienced this heartwrenching dilemma you have nothing to say at all.

Now I am going to answer the question ruefully and to the best of my knowledge. Yes it is certainly possible to love(for those intellectually challenged) I mean in love. It is for some unknown reason to be in love with 2 guys or girls at the same time loving them to the same degree. For I am currently facing this unfortunate predicament as we speak. I am not equip as I am sure we who face this problem to go into the details, as far as explaining how and why someone could ever be in love with 2 people at the same time. Those are questions that can not and simply will not be answered.

PS to some of the idiots thinking that they always have to throw sex in everything yes there is a thin line between love and lust. lust doesn't always involve sexual intimacy do we not lust spiritually when our loved one is gone and we just want to hold them.do we not lust when we intwine ourselves in conversation with our equal. lust is the anatomy for being in love GET YOUR MINDS RIGHT!!!!!

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I disagree with King Tut

A man cannot love 2 women at the same time. Lust is not love. It's either love or hate. There are no degrees to love.

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no.wat u feel 4 one must be greater dan wat u feel 4 d other

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Okay. Well, I think I have a VERY big problem.

I've been going out with this guy for about 5 months now.

And I guess we are like into each other.

He ignores me alot though.

Even when we just like hang out.

He acts like I'm not even there.

And it gets me pretty frusrated.

Well, there is also this other guy.

And I know he really likes me.

We went out before when I was 15.

And then he moved away.

We said that if he ever came back we would pick up where we left off.

Now a year later he moved back with his dad.

I'm pretty sure he still likes me like he did when he was 15.

He texts me non stop all the time.

And we hang out everyday.

We talk on the phone for hours and everything.

The other night I was talking to James (The kid I'm going out with)

And he didn't like talk to me or anything.

He ignored me the whole time.

It wasn't just me and James either.

It was us and a couple of friends.

And he never did that before.

So I left and went home.

On my walk home Anthony ( The other kid) texts me.

It said stuff like "I really like you."

And " I can't wait until you and James break up."

And Anthony is best friends with James.

Well, Anthony told me he loved me.

And I didn't know what to say, so I said I love you too,

And I think I really meant it.

Now what should I tell James.?

Should I break up with James for Anthony?

Or should I just forget about Anthony?

But recently my friends have been telling me they saw James with someone else.

Any help here?

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No, to me a person can't love 2 girls or guys at the same time. Men especially loves one and lusts the other.

Another thing, check the scriptures about Jacob and Elkanah. In these two instances, there was reeeeeeeeeeeeeeeal jealousy and conflict between the two wives. Jacob spelled it out that he loves Rachel and the same goes to Elkanah.

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xtremely impossible to love 2 at a time.

claim to love 1 is not completely real in most cases sef.

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yes of course! you choose to love

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i believe u can love two people at a time, d only difference is dat one will definitely be preferable to d other.

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even more when u are FREAKKKKKKKKKKKK

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haha, this thread is very funny,i have read through i was just laughing.nevertheless, i have my own advice for you and i want to say one fact about love and relationship.We human being we pretend alot especially this our country nigeria we never did anything to transparent,we pretend and decieve ourselves alot because. i know the secret of my friendship, relationship among male and female is "SEX", the behaviour change after several sexs.many ppl want love because of sex it may be female or male.You shall see who truely love after several sexs, many "I love you" have ended after several sexs because they have satisfied their conscience and they carry on to another carrier.women if a man love u,truely love u: he will not give u advice to abort pregnancy,he wont hate u after several sex.men,if a women claim to love u no matter how poor u r she wil stay with u, incase u met when u r rich, she will not leave u when there is no money again and she will not leave u after several sex too.i believe u will know who truely love u after sex,i didnt say u should give chance for sex.but play safe.

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Lovin 2 peps simultaneously is possible but very rare.

In such cases, you get hell confused.

The only way out is to weigh both on a scale. The heaviest scores the mark lol.

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I am afraid that I may be in love with two boys at the same time. I love them equally but in different ways. they are similar and at the same time polar opposites. I keep telling my self that the love i feel for one of them (the one who has not been my boy friend for over two years) is platonic brother sister love, but sometimes i wonder. I have no one to talk to or ask about this, someone please help me, how do i know if i am with the right one, and to make matters worse the two boys are best friends have been since like second grade. I love them both so much I don't want either of them to be hurt. I don't even know what my question was anymore, I just ahve to know

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Loving two people @ the same is impossible, you may like two people at the same time agreed!

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@topic

u can love someone and like someone else but loving two people at the same time is impossible

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I KNOW its possible to love 2 people at the same time, I have the misfortune of this predicament at present, which is why i googled the topic and ended up here with you lovely people.

here's my take on it:

Contrary to what some of you have said, in my opinion, love isn't a cup you fill with emotion, love is a colour you see which fills YOU with emotion. You can't describe your love for someone, or even something, quantifyably. Nor is it something you only have a predetermined amount of which you need to carefully devide between your loved ones. How can you say "I love you 48%, but im afraid or big winner today is YOU, with 52%! Wheyhey!!"

Thats rediculous.

Being inlove with someone is the way you feel at one with them. In that you know somewhere, sometime, you have already loved this person and know all there is to know about them from some past life. Your souls are connected.

HOWEVER - and here in lies the problem (in my case specifically) - sometimes you love someone and know them uterly but find yourself interested in something bewildering and altogether new. Why is that? Your exploration reveals facination, facination quickly grows into a slight hint of an emotion, and then its all down hill (or uphill) from there.

The innitial colour fills you with knowing. insight. happyness. The new colour, you also love now, fills you with the same emotions. Their shades may be different. The emotions may be differnt, but remember this is not a point scoring game. This is flavour, touch, smell, these things CANT be scored and so you can't love one more than the other. And so, you love them both, deeply.

now what the hell do i do?

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It is POSSIBLE to love two people at the same time.

It is REMOTELY POSSIBLE to love two people EQUALLY.

You can love two people at once, but it is hardly possible you would love them the same way. If it can be quantified, you would discover that the percentage you have for one would be greater than the other.

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Its very simple and uncomplicated. first of all where do you begin to draw your line between like and love hen...

that you love someone dont mean you have to marry them ooh. truth is we all love many people at the same time, we love the way she talks, the way he move, his voice and some other thing.

Look at yourself and tell me outside your family you have no love for more than one person, presently i can say i love about three different peopl, and my gf aint part of these three.

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Well @coo what i mean now is close relationship men..

@hot-angel.: can you elaborate more please.. this topic is getting intresting...

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my take is simple it is possible to love two , sometimes three people in different ways at the same time. and i dont mean close relations at that.

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It's possible to be lusting on 400 guys at once. It's possible to like 300 guys at once. But it's impossible to LOVE 2 guys at the same time.

Also depending on the LOVE. You Love your daddy, and your boyfriend. Yes you love too men at the same time. But those love have limits. You cant Love, i mean love love.. two guys/gurls at the same time. You can only make yourself think YOU love them equally.. but seriously, you are kidding yourself.

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