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Is It Possible To Tell The Truth All The Time?

Is it possible/advisable to tell the absolute truth all the time, especially in a relationship?

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The first principle abt lyin is to stay as close to the truth as possible so u can always maq that switch weneva neccessary.Somtimes it is absolutely neccessary to be economical with the truth considerin the prevailin circumstances.Even Jesus was hesistant on som occassions(not that he lied but chose to speak in parables).

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Hmmm nice thread

Observing. . . . . . . will keep observing too.

But much as we want to, there are times u can't avoid it.

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Hard as it is, it very possible.

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I would place her on a trial period, any slip from her. . . . . . .

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What if it is a sizeable number of men? Would you still stay with her if she told you?

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It could cost her the man: If he's a boy, yes thats possible. . . Almost every man has has a quickie that is not very plausible and often quite embarrassing, but its best for the guy to know from her rather than hooking up with the guy later and hearing from him. . . That will even help him make up his mind quicker about her.

Men who like to know a woman has not been sexually active before him: I seriously dont like to know that i'm dealing with someone of little or no experience, perhaps men of that category exist in sizeable numbers - i dont know. As long as u spare me all the shenanigans about how it happened and so and so, i dont mind knowing that u slept with a few men.

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That would really be telling a lot and it might have cost her that man which would definately be the case if he is the close minded sort who would like to believe the woman he's with hasnt been sexually active before him. Some men really cant bear that thought you know.

Very good for you! But I think you should understand why she want to know it all. . . . I guess she wants you to be honest and straight with her which might help her with her security issues. . . . or something like that.

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Hmmm i try to avoid lying. I usually just say i don't want to talk about it right now, ask me another time. That does not mean i will lie when he asks me later. When am in the mood to talk about it, sure even if its not pretty i'l tell. If am not in the mood to tell, you wont get anything out of me, truth or lies - nada.

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why should I want to know? To me, thats giving myself unnecessary grief. I believe the past is better kept where it belongs.

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That makes you one of the very few.

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lying is an habitual action,so is telling the truth,and habits can be learnt. but u must also learn to b diplomatic wit words.

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Exactement! Mais seulement si elle a une histoire ou la promiscuité

Exactly! But only if she has a history of promiscuity

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It is possible but very very very hard.

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Thats a lie!! You cant possibly tell the truth all the time. You might not always lie outrightly, but you cant always tell the whole thruth. It's not even advisable.

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Yes, i always do. . . I dont place potential outcomes ahead of truth - i say the truth and forget what happens after. Surely, everybody can do that.

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