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Is It Really A Disadvantage/Crime To Be Short, Ugly Or Fat?

Abeg mek i ask dis question. is it a crime to be short, ugly or fat? Must we all be handsome or tall?

there are lots of people out there crying for love but instead we share the love within the handsome and the beautiful, the tall n the tall, the slim n the slim.

Go out there n give some one some love, being fat does not make a different

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so which category do u fall under

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It is a disadvantage. A crime? No.

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you should say "some women" because i personally know women that love fat(will only date a fat guy) men and some that date short guys, everyone likes what they like.

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A crime? No. A disadvantage? Hell yes ! Who'd want to marry a short guy or an ugly guy or a fat guy? Trust me when I say that when a woman thinks of her 'mister right', those are not the characteristics she thinks of.

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Ah ah- of course not!! In the modern world we live in we have been taught what is ugly what is fat and what is unattractive rather than following our own instincts and acting upon them! Instead of people to encourage others to work on thier inner selves they encourage people to always 'look right and dress good' developing a world full of shallow minds and mediocrity! Abeg its not a crime for anyone to be physically anything- you just need to find a way to ignore those trying to place value on yourself simply because of the way you look!

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Tope baby:

Why did you resurrect this old thread?

Come over to the politics section, if you are bored

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looks isnt everythin but personality, resoning, u gotta be comfortable with ya self whether lekpa, orobo, short or iroko.

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people love with thier eyes before thier hearts

every one is trying to reach for the best in life and good looks is part of it

but some r just so obsessed with that they forget other important things in life and that looks dont last for ever

maybe thats why there r more broken marriages now

looks shouldnt be the base for choosing a partner , its whats inside that counts

just like jems u have to dig deep into the earth to get them

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http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20061105213046AAgRE6R

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http://www.discovervancouver.com/forum/topic.asp?TOPIC_ID=102327

http://www.discovervancouver.com/forum/topic.asp?TOPIC_ID=102327&whichpage=2

http://www.discovervancouver.com/forum/topic.asp?TOPIC_ID=102327&whichpage=3

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i believe u cannot be shorter than me and be taller than me at the same time, u cannot be fatter than me n be slimmer than me at the same time. Which ever group one belongs, is an advantage

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no and yes, if in your area people love fat, slim, poor, short people, then try to be that, but i know a lot of people prefer good height, average build, otherwise i will ask 2 silly questions:

1. is it a disadvatage to be poor?right answer: obviously YES.

2. What finger do you use to arouse a woman's p, y? obviously, the longer because the shorter is disadvantaged.

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check my profile, my pic

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are u ugly too (sorry i'm jus being curious) or no kesh to maintain dem?

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@ Zignor

Have i answered ur question?

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to keep them na wahala, for ppl like me that dont have the time to drag any girl, we just stay to the average looking ones

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Personly i dont fancy the so called Beautiful girls

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@ Zignor

If i have my way i will do that

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like the saying goes, "Beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder*. Dont eva av that perception that u re ugly or something, ur outer Ugliness cud be ur inner Beauty which u re yet to discover. Never allow anyone look u down remember, God created u in special and unique way. So dont give a Bleep abt wat em' people say!

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A girl walked into my office and said to me "Peter, what do u think about me? are my truly a disadvantage?" I looked straight into her eyes and i saw rejection, then i asked her "what happened?" She said sometimes she feels as if she is in a different world entirely. She feels the same urge a lady should feel for a guy but looking at herself (Fat), she is no where to fit in.

My friend told me of this girl he was tripping for but he doesn't know how to face her. I asked him y? he told me "can u c?, my hight"

Personally i think the mental picture that people like Zignor has should be abolished.

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Beauty lies within a person and has a lot to do with what's on the inside.

People's tastes also vary, some hate slim pple while some hate fat pple,

You have to believe that you are beautiful however you are because first and foremost uwe had no say when we were created or born.

Believe that u r beautiful no matter how u r and pple will c it. support it with good behaviour.

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It's not a crime but it could be disadvantageous.

With those physical attributes, there are some jobs you can't even think of applying for.

Example, cabin crew.

But you can actually overlook your defitiencies it that's what they really are and work hard on your strong points.

You also have to develop as much confidence as possible and grow over inferiority complex.

It might interest you to know that William Wilberforce was a very short man and today he has his name in history.

Comrade Oshiomole is equally short and he's not so handsome either.

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It's not a crime, but it's obviously a disadvantage to be unattractive in any way.

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@zignor: very contradictory submission when compared to your signature: u are what u think!

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its not a disadvantage to be short, ugly or fat. but the media has created a stereotype on these attributes.

that has created a huge perception on audiences, that you must be tall, beautiful and slim to be accepted.

if anyone is to be blamed, blame the media.

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