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Is It Really Her Fault?

you know like how this so called business men travel all the time staying away from home for all most a month to 2 months all in the name of doing business,

this married woman had her husband doing the same thing, traveling and staying up to 3 months away from  their mansion home doing business and leaving only his wife at home alone, they have no kids and whenever the man comes home,  he only stays for like 1 week or so and he travels.

the wife being a woman and not a piece of furniture in the house became very lonely, she cooks, eats and sleep in this huge bed alone. her friends advised to find a man to keep her campanion, that she needs intimacy and love, but she refused, claiming her love for her husband and trust. things came crashing down oneday when she was so lonely and just needed the touch of a man, she ccouldn'tresist it has been like a month or more since she has been intimate with her husband, on that day the feelings overwhelmed her that when their gateman came to drop the car keys after going on errand, the woman told him to go and drop the keys on her bedroom, instead of the pparlor

the gateman being surprised couldn't disobey his madam, the woman immediately followed him and drag him to her bed and begged him to touch her, citing her loneliness, the gateman refused but the woman begged on and they eventually had sex, and that was the only time it happened. when she came back to her senses guilty followed but her friends cheered her on.

weeks later she was pregnant, surprised and confused he told her husband he couldn't believe it, he calculated the date and claimed he wasn't the father, it was then that woman confessed about her night with the gateman. the husband was furious, and now wants her packing, the gateman was sacked. the gateman is a relation of the man.

disregarding the part of the pregancy, my questions is,  is it really this woman's fault? i mean she is a woman and she needs care and love, i really think it is the man's fault.  only the lawd knows what he does there when he travels.  while i don't support cheating, i really think in this case that her cheating is justified.

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Both at fault. It takes two to make a relationship work. Know your strengths and weaknesses and keep the communication up.

Did she mention to her husband that their busy schedule is wrecking havoc on her system? Did she ask him how he is coping? Did she try anything with the husband? Did he sense her loneliness?

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Jaaam question!

Didn't she know what she waz getting into when she accepted to marry the man?

Did she have sex every 2 months when she was single? Why does sex now become a "necesity"?In such a case,i won't ask her to pack,i will send her out immediately she finishes talking and then send her things to her later!

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Yes, it is the fault of the woman for marrying money instead of a man!

Didn't she know this man before they married? Why is she pretending all is well when she gave the opportunity to pick a real man?

She is a lesson for women who think money come first in their relationship.

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the man travels out of the country, the so called abroad business. i dnt think the idea of phone intimacy ever crossed her mind, u know not many ppl have heard of it.

her friends have be supportive of her, but then u never know what they have in mind.

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The both of them are to be blamed.

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i think i've seen the movie too

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i think if you were in the same position as her you would have done just that, calling her husband solves no problem, cox she does object to the man's travel but all falls on deaf ears, the husband should have known better that she is a married woman not a hanging picture on the wall.

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JUSTI KINI,IS NOT JUSTIFIED JO !. what happen to calling ur hubbie and explaining how u feel to him,If nah me i go send her packing without thinkin twice.To think she stood herself so low to shag my gatement,haba insult of highest order.

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