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Is It Right For A Lady To Propose To A Guy?

pls peeps, i ve a friend who's gurl just made the first move, so my question to mostly ladies now is, can u propose to your guy or force him into doing it?? your views pls

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Thanx loads David,I appreciate it.

Max Respct!!

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this must be the youtube koolchico, i enjoy your movies dude!

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@missy b,

She might not ve bumped into him,she must taken time to study him before she made her move.

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@missy B

it shows she knows what she want and she went for it.thats y its maturity

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it is called maturity,it is not a bad thing.

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I dont think there is any thing wrong with a lady popping up the question if she so desires .

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Well, I got that rude shock, and I can surely say, I was startled. Still mulling over it. . . . If a lady truly knows what she wants and values a man, she should go for the man.

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T's not a thang for Ladies after my likeness.

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there is nothing wrong with it.

she knows what she wants and is going for it.

just that in this parts she is seen as loose, most expecially when the relationship dont last long.

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Well. It really not a forbidden thing. Just that a number of considerations are necessary.

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ha,the babe no try at all,how she go first toast guy,make im Bleep up 2morrow.If she do like that na em be say she fit pay 4 em bride price as she be groom.

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In d western world it happens u know, a lady can propose who really cares. But in Africa, traditional settings it's d A word.

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I respect Ladies who prpose to theirs Guys. It shows they know what they want out of life.

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Ladies, are you tired of waiting around for your man to propose? Society says that it is the man’s responsibility to take the first step. But really, what are you waiting for? Break the mold and get what you want…the ring! And of course, the man. Here are some ways that you can propose to a man.

The first thing you need to do is put society’s viewpoints on the back burner. If you really want to marry this man but he is taking his time in broaching the subject, gather up your courage and ask for his hand in marriage. If you two are meant for each other, you will get your wish.

All of the emotions that a man goes through when he is getting ready to propose hold true for women. Asking for someone to marry you is a scary question filled with either acceptance or rejection. Since you should know your partner pretty well, take a gander at what his response would be. Some men do not feel comfortable with the woman proposing and this could make things very uncomfortable.

If your man is a Renaissance man, he may be open to the woman proposing. If so, move forward. Your proposal should be a memorable occasion. Create an environment that you will both enjoy and have fond memories of. Perhaps you have a favorite restaurant or park that you like to go to.

Take a trip to your favorite location, slowly approach the subject. Talk about all the wonderful things you love about him and how he completes you. Remember to talk from the heart. So many times we use pre-written speeches but this can sound contrived. Look deep into his eyes, grab him by the hands and pop the question. If you are the type that likes a little flair, get down on one knee much as he would have done. Smile honestly at him the entire time. It will show that you are confident and sure in your decision.

So, if you’ve been waiting for that ring for eternity and your man doesn’t seem to be making a move, if the time is right, go for it. There’s no reason that a lady can’t go after what she wants.

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Well in this era of scarcity of Men(Husbands),Why not?!

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29th of February of every leap year the ladies do purpose marriage to their fiancee, but in general its not a sign of desperation, girls/ladies do realise that they go for what they like and not wait for the guy to make the first move, we are not living on trees or in the cave, time waits for nobody,

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http://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-25444.0.html

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If the lady is financially stable than the man, why not? God do not say men should be the only one to propose.

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It signifies desperateness for a lady to propose.

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