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Is It Right To Punish Your Partner By Denying Him/her intimacy?

recently a friend told me she has refused to sleep with her man because he wouldn't give her money to buy a particular 'aso-ebi' she asked for. i told her this was wrong! even the bible says "The wife does not have authority over her own body, but the husband does; and likewise also the husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife does. I Cor. 7:4

why do women (and sometimes men too) love doing this? Is it right to deny your spouse 5ex just for selfish reasons?

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Then you need to stay single and not get married.

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LMAO

clear case of use what you have to get wat you want

use you "thingy" to collect money for aso-ebi

By their fruits we shall know them,

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any babe that thinks she can punish me by denying me intimacy is foolish- Ill definately get it elsewhere and even if she doesnt deny me of intimacy, Ill probably get else where anyway so . . . iunno care shes denying herself.

lmfao

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Thats true. And if I suspect my husband of cheating. No intimacy, until we thrash things out and get some tests done. My life is way more important than that.

However poster, If shes simply denying her husband intimacy b.c she wants something material. No thats not right. Thats actually very silly and irresponsible on her part. What is she a p.r.o.s.t.i.t.u.t.e?

Also, why is her husband denying things she wants? I understand if he cant afford it, but just to say no to be ornery and rediculous, than hes not right. If the wife is angry about something then. She wont WANT to have intimacy with you.

They both need to sit down and thrash out their issues before something this minor creates a big ordeal. To sum it all up. They both need to grow up.

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depends on the offence.  "i want money to buy something so your not getting any till you pay up" - not appropriate

"i saw you come out of the hotel last night, untill you show me an std/hiv panel you aint getting any" - appropriate

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if they are married, then it is absolutely wrong, but if it is on a friendship level, then decisions varies from person to person. to me there is nothing wrong. after all na still on flexxing parole.

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Other chicks no dey around? Thats crap

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When some women act this way they should be ready for the consequences. The following could happen

1. The hubby will see no difference between his so-called wife and the prostitute outside (Money wen go buy one Aso-ebi fit lay 3 sweet sixteen)

2. A vicious cycle of do-me-I-do-you can start and my climb mountain "neverest". - Family wahala

3. There are many desperate girls who do not mind becoming second wife.

My advice:

Do whatever you can to win his love. A man who loves is wife will find it hard to deprive her of things she desires.

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It's not right to deny your partner in a committed relationship/marriage, if he is suspected to have STD then he should be made to use condoms until tests are carried out. That should be enough punishment for him!

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Marriage is not mathematics, meaning the formula that works for A might end B's marriage if he or she uses it.

I will advise not to start what you cannot finish.

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Isnt dat how some marital problems begin?

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LMAO

clear case of use what you have to get wat you want

use you "thingy" to collect money for aso-ebi

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it is not right, simple

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