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Is It Right To Show A Lady How Much You Truely Love Her?

Some times i feel it's not right to show a lady how much u truely love her because they end up abusing or taking advantage of it against you.

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hahaha, thats the exact way women think knw, and guys wonder why, women are becoming so cold....

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try and not be predictable

Is love supposed to be a game?

lt pains me when women take it so, and it's so sad dat they don't truly fall in love, instead they fall in love with wat u are offering, be it money, care, affection, attention, Laughter, etc.

U can hardly hear a woman say l Love him just becos l love him, it's always 4 a selfish reason

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its good if she

knowsbut as someone said try and strike a balance

between would be ok and over the border expression

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Na wa oooo! Take this advice @ OP

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Give her all that you've got and if she mess up, take your love and shower it somebody else. If your is genuine, it's her loss.

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from experience on both sides of the spectrum,its right to be romantic and all that yada yada but not show it too much because then the girl starts taking you for granted,on the other hand try and not be predictable(not the same as not showing you love her)it puts a sort of spark in the relationship and the gurl wont be bored with the guy,when a guy is showing all the love,being predictable,the gurl start s getting bored then irritated and then its downhill from there,

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Initially I will advise every guy to show at least 40% love no more no Less if in case she tries to brake your fragile heart.Guys you know what I mean na.

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@POSTER,

It's not right but it's OK,

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Like u said, they end up abusing it

Otherwise, l do believe in tru Love and it's nice to show and receive it

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in another similer thread, a girl asked if its rigth to let a man know you love her and all the girls said no

and now they are saying yes its right to let a girl know you love her so much

isnt it just a selfish world? we are all victims and we have victimised, maybe thats why God is just watching, i can see tha big smile on his face

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no comment

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@ omo . ve got all d attention that i need.if u weren't seekin mine,why reply?i'm sure u ve gotten it now.*heck**vai cagare*

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Show all the love you can to your woman,

An average Naija man will not want to show love, this is not good.

Express your love to her and everything will be fine.

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My ex had the same mentality, well guess what he's ex and I'm with someone man enough to show he loves me. I loved him dearly and I knew he loved me, but I couldn't stand being treated like poo, I couldn't stand being put at a distance, so I left.

I love my babe now and he loves me too, and we're happy expressing our love for each other.

We're upfront with each other and don't beat around the bush. So there's no guessing of how we feel about each other. We clarify everything. We're honest with each other.

Women grow tired of dishonesty, especially those who wish to settle.

If you think keeping your girl at an arms length and refusing to show you love her will keep her, then you are mistaken. You will loose her, so what's the point again?

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bodly @ mc omo.my reply wasn't to u num 1,den 2,whether i decide to use d @ key or not its my biz nd my biz alone whoever wants to mk it his/hers can go ahead.*my username wasn't spelt well .take note*

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pls try listenin to dis song:if tomorrow never comes.

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@topic

abeg i dont see any problem in a guy showing his babe dat he loves her jare

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If you love a Lady, Show her but let it get silly

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na wa o, naija guys una dey o. infact ladies r in trouble, see talks about ladies. easy o but i think i would go your way drayslide

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let me tell you something, no matter the love you have for her, you can never never satisfy a gurl

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I think i should show love but not as much as i feel 4her, until i am convinced that she share the same amount of love with me & above all ardors the respect i have 4her. with love comes respect.

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wot okereke said, some guys show emotions too early, .comin out as weak(tho it may not be) and desperate to d gurl, in dat situation d gurl might take u for granted since she found a mugu thats in luv

just try and balance everythin so u dont look like a desperado

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Its Not Wrong. Infact its the wisest thing to do. Those who love and I mean Really well never lose. Love Conquers all.

I once had that orientation. I thot it weak to love because of the training I had back in my early years @ school.

Now I know it a trait that belongs to the strong and not the weak hearted. The strong willed always express their love. Its so hard for the weak and insecure, but in the world of the intangible you must give to receive. If u love u experience it.

Its always comforting to know u put in your best even when it looks like it wasnt good enough. Time always reveals the truth.

Ive been in war. but that never proved my strength, it infact revealed my weakness.

So brother, dont let every opportunity to xpres it pass u by.

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if u show it too much u would be taken for a fool. ur best bet is to keep them guessing

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The truth is; most ladies will always cash in on that  and mistreat u. I understand the human tendency to take things forgranted. Just find a balance between yes and no, that's where your maturity becomes handy.

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CAPITAL,NOOOOOOOOOO,because if you do,she will capitalise on that and start acting FUNNY and STRANGE,i mean SHAKARA,DON ENTER,cmon guys, you shld understand it BETTER,though,is verse-versa kind of GAME IN EVERY RELATIONSHIP.

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But ladies in the house, could you let us guys know why some of you abuse real love. most of all when the guy has invested somuch love in you, you turn it to be a advantage over him. I believe that love is a man's solution & loving is a woman's solution.

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yeah,i think u need to show a lady how much u truely love her cos if u dont,u have the chances of loosing her,

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well hhm i think it depends on the lady involved cause not all human beings are the same.

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I agree with u abbey02, bt most of them think it's a way of showing how strong they are over their guys. well, i had such problem & chose to call it off, because i feel love should be 100% & 50 - 50 from both sides. That's why i am scared of showin how i feel about who ever is next.

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i will yes and no

reason for a yes is to amke her secure and rest assured that yes she has someone

and no because we are all human she might misuse the chance

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well i believe u, but u know some guys like doing their things 100% & i think that was my weak point. don't u think ur girl will take it to mean u've gotten someone else & choose to kick her aside, u know ladies can be funny some times.

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i beleive it's right, then you will know too whether she truely loves you in return (reciprocal love).

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Hmmmmm well i know most women need the man to show the depth of his love for her.

This is also true, i guess a man has to find the balance or combination. Maybe something like sometimes showing the depth of his love and when he sees that she's getting too big for her undies LMAO then tone down the affection. Who knows? I mean what works for one may not work for another.

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