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Is It Safe To Tell A Man "I Love You"?

Question: Is it safe to tell a man this? and Men, would you appreciate hearing this or does this simply turn you off?

Ladies, please feel free to comment on your experiences, having said these words to a man. Are there any regrets you wish to share with the house?

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If my girl doesnt tell me she loves me, then who the hell is she going to say it to?

Damn, you gotta say it anytime you got the chance.

I LOVE YOU,

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my dear, those words coming from the one you love, is the greatest kick a man can get, i never fail to tell my fiancee how much i love her and that she is the best thing that has ever happened to me. The result: i;m so well loved,what you give is what you get.

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u dont want a gurl tellin u she loves u just after 3 days of meeting , ladies love to take their time and guys love to wait, word!

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I'll tell you the truth, I'll feel disappointed if a girl I've been dying to tell these words to does that before me. It'll reduce my craze

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@topic; i sure do know dat d sentence "I Love U" shouldnt b taken 4 granted although a lot of people say it without knowin wat it really means. But definitely personally wont tell a guy i love him under a couple of hrs/ days.

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It is not a crime to say it, in as much u have prepared ur mind for either of the answer, but sat it to someone that have head, not the AGBERO TYPE IN SUITE AND TROUSER OK!!!!!!!,

IT is a free world, express your feeling. Not too common in our culture, but the ones that have their head straight will read ur true feelings, but no in a CARICATURE WAY SHA OOOOOO

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I do not mind telling a guy that I love him,but I will be cautious to guess what his reaction will be before making such a declaration.

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LOVE?? My ex-girlfriend broke up with me simply because she said I havr never told her that I loved her.

I do not believe in that stuff. The damn thing does not even have a meaning. So I say it is not safe to tell nobody that you love them.

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it's better to truly love and get hurt than not loving at all. so they say, abi.

Sha you have to brace yurself 4 whatever reaction you get, those words have a way of

freaking even Arnold Schwazzneger out!

but hey! what the heck, say it jare!

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thats fine girl, but i don't get emotional,but i do get emotional when my girl says "i love u".My head begis to bump like the heart of an athelete, be coool say those words,

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Its not really really safe to tell anyone i LOVE U(Both parties here pls)

One should only hope for the right person, But as soon u r sure of the Man without any doubt in your mind,, WHY NOT? Go AHEAD AND EXPRESS YOURSELF

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I only say it if its true

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[color=#990000]Well my opinion is YES cos each time my ex girl friend tells me she loves me i go crazy and i think there a special person that really do craes bout my living [/color]

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@denex

okay,i didn't get it correct at first

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@LexyHearts

that's when I consider it unsafe.

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i love nairaland!!!!!!!!

its sure safe as long as the person deserves it.

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I think it's safe. As long as you're not a man too.

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U welcome girlfriend, welcome to the forum and hope u have a blast.

Have a splendid weekend, take care!!

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PERSONALLY I THINK IF YOU REALLY LOVE SOME ONE, AND ITS NOT LUST YOUR FEELING THEN THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH PROCLAIMING YOUR LOVE FOR THEM. HOWEVER LADIES WE HAVE TO BARE IN MIND THAT MEN DO NOT ACKNKNOWLEDG THE MISUSE OF THE WORD "LOVE". USING IT TOO MUCH CAN EITHER MAKE YOU SEEM UNSERIOUS OR IT MAY EVEN MAKE YOU SEEM OBSESSIVE AND CHASE DEM AWAY BUT NO MATTER HOW MUCH MEN LIKE TO FRONT THAT THEY DO NOT WANT TO HEAR IT, NA LIE!!! THEY DO BUT NOT EXCESIVELY. ONLY WHEN ITS NEED , AT THE RIGHT TIME AND AT THE RIGHT MOMENT!

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Oh, Thanks girl, Thats nice to know. No prob.

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I LOVE to hear "i LOVE you" all the time. I appreciate it

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My dear people: Is it quite normal for the title on a thread to change?, I admit I made an error on the first title but I did change it to "I Love You", only to find the entire topic change to "Is it safe to tell a man "I Love You" mmmm, Something extremely fishy is going on here,

Well, I guess nothing much changed from the title, But is this a normal occurance on Nairaland? Just wondering for the future,

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i dont tink its wrong for woman for tell a man I LOVE U, i blive she even makes it easier for him, maybe he himself finds it difficult to tell her how he feels, n b4 thn d lady breaks in n tell in him I LOVE U, some men will say the woman is a slut, for me i will CHERISH HER, and ADORE her soo much, n respect her for her genuity, but sometimes man got to b very careful whom he falls in lov with, lol

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Girlfriend,

from my experience i rather advice you to take it easy cos love don't exist at first sight,you may be feeling something initially but i guess it may be real and grow over time but its not certainly love.

Save the I love you for later but show him that you appreciate him Ok.

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just tell me and wait 4 my response

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i will like to know you daniel

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abeg i no fit love someone if i no see their face

@omoeko

na shoe we go chop

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we all do - form an orderly queue

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It simply won't turn me off if a girl tells me she loves me.

It's ok for a girl to expres herself before a man. we're all humas we have emotions, we have feelings.

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you mean three word sentence. And it doesnt turn me off at all. Why, today a girl told me that and she's not even my wife! And, no, I haven't done a thing with her.

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