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Is It True That Love Comes Once In A Life Time?

Is it true that love comes once in a life time?

Ive loved this guy for 12 years, right from childhood but he sees me like his sister, someone he can't hurt, someone he wants to protect and keep forever, Have you ever loved someone so dearly and he loves you so brotherly, he still sees you as his kid sister and not as a woman.

ive tried going into a relationship but ive never loved anyone the way i love this guy. Alot men are asking for my hand in marriage and im still thinking and praying about it, but i know that deep down in my heart if this guy comes tomorrow and says he wants to marry me i wont think twice. why can't i feel this way for others, it is really disturbing me because the last time he came back, he was drawn to me and i felt the love in his actions and in his eyes, so much unspoken communication, but thats not enough for me to wait, i need committment which he hasnt voiced. i wouldnt want to get committed somewhere and break it tomorrow because of him,

what do i do?

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You better open up to him before you lose him

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Everybody here have given you good advice but i guess you will have problem on how to start it. I'ill advice you call him and at the end of the discussion tell I LOVE YOU and waiting for his response as a stepping stone

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MYGod. whao, long years is it a cause.

and u are call it brotherly. i call it pity. becos the bobo knows its been long thats why he is accting brothely. can i see ur pics pls to tell u more.

i will pray wit u so that he ASSKS FAST. JEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEZ

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@sweetstjoy

I have been in a similar situation as this one before. Grew up with this girl, our families are so close. I got so attached to her but felt like I had to watch over her like a sister(she's 2yrs younger than me). I guess she could tell from some of my actions but we never admitted these feelings.

She's married now, and finally told me about the feelings she had(has?). Now, I feel so bitter and angry with myself.

The point is, he may feel for you more than just a sister but fears you'd see him differently if it goes beyond that. My advice is to find the right time, mood to talk about it. For sure, he'll let you know where he stands, or where he places you

And yes, I feel the truest of love comes but only once in a lifetime. After all, God only took out one rib!

Act now!

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Why dont u just tell him or get someone that can tell him. If he has loved you like a sister, he would probably want you to be his wife. And if he doesn't feel the same way, he would understand and not make you feel like an .

In my experience, he probably feels the same way about you,

ACT NOW

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