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Is It Wacko Or Jealous Tendencies?-

Does courtship gives a man the right to hack into fiance's email box to read mails, communicate with her contact list friends warning them to keep off dat the babe is married, Do we call it violation of privacy? Is it good for a woman to tell a fiancee her personal or relationship past - cos the man wants to hear all,

Is trust built upon what the woman tells a man or upon the events, actions, willinglyness to build a r/ship?

Is there a line between jealousy, possessiveness & wacko behaviour & emotional instability? Or is the guy staking his claim - avoiding future challenges? lets talk about it,

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When it comes to d issue of checkin on mails and text dat is an obvious sign of insecurity which is a r/ship destroyer. It is insecurity and complex issues dat wuld make a guy or gal warn oda pple off. To me it just wacko, i am in a r/ship of my own freewill ur warnin pple off not determine if i stay infact it is a big turnoff. If i date a guy lik dat i am likely to hide tins 4rm him which on d whole affects d r/ship

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Jor, i agree. only bring up the past if it has any bearing on ur present r/ship. . . . e.g, it would be nice if you told me u were almost or even married b4, had a child, std, had a babe who used to beat u.

However, checking up on her mail and stuff just makes u feel like u're doing something. If she was really serious, she'd open a new e-mail account. but of course, please if u feel he/she is keepin unnecessarily late nights, whispering when talking on the phone, mistakenly keeps blurting out some random guys name. . . .

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this is crazy. unless she is misbehaving there is no reason to check. if she feels comfortable talking about past relationships she sould do so but if not comfortable for whatever reason and the relationships are over then there is no reason to bring tham up. the only part of her past she must tell is if she ever had an std even if it is cured. this also goes vice-versa

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Depends how far along.  However going the extra mile to ward off friends is crazy. 

Depending on agreements/arrangements, it could be or be not a violation of privacy.

Yes.  Especially the ones that have the boomerang effects.

Combination of all plus character.

Yes there are thin lines between them.

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Probably d lady has being indulging herself in suspicious activities, dis can arouse tha guy's curiousity

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it doesnt necessarily mean that the r/ship wont last. I know pple who've been checking each other's mail and keeping tabs on eachother and are still together (even eventually married).

I just feel it gives unnecessary headache.

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That's pure foolishness if a man goes ahead to hack into his Fiancee's mailbox to read her mail and send message to her contacts, I think it shows the man doesn't trust the lady in question, and a relationship that has no trust won't last,

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no courtship doesnt allow him, but insecurity does. actions like that can only mean that he/she doesnt trust u. sometimes though i wont blame them

from displaying those kinda of actions, as they may have cause to from their partners, who may be cheating. either way, once this starts, its good

to end the r/ship, as it cant produce any thing good at the end.

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lol! Well, I feel that constantly checking the other person's mail doesnt mean you're on top of things. If person wan cheat, the person go cheat. checking mail, text, snooping on phone calls doesnt stop anyone. You just de give urself headache!

but sometimes, it just makes you feel that you are at least doing something,futile though it may be

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