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Is It Wrong 4 A Lady To Take A Guy Out?

my girl friend just called me one Saturday evening that she would love to take me out on sunday to ceddi plaza.

but when i got to my friends (female friend) and told them about it, they were like, thats crazy.

y will i take a guy out.

it is suppose to be him who will always to me out not 4 me. i was like, this is my babe, i am use to taking out many time so, taking out is not any big deal to her.

but when i got to my guys too and told them about it, some of them said thats crazy, how will a lady take me out. its to OK.

i am confused.

although i went out with her that sunday, but am, still bothered.

is anything wrong with that?

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first must you carry your blabber mouth around to tell everyone youg/f wants to take you out? i thought there should be secrecy in a relationship.

YOUR G/F IS ONE IN A BILLION, HOLD HER TIGHT AND DON'T EVER LET HER SLIP AWAY. it shows she doesn't always wait for a man to do all the expences.

as for those you female friends they are either broke asses or their mothers instilledthis "african sucked mentality" in them that's why at 50 most of them still they find first love

and for your guys that were against it, they are damn jealouse (no guy will not want to have such opportunity and privilege)

GO CATCH SOME FUN DUDE

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why everyone keep talking abt this good poo.

as for me i think i should rather take my girls poss myself and take the money and for her to take me out.

i dont feel comfortable with her taking me out

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let me say something, relationship is friendship, my friend by name oluchi called me and took me out for the 1st time, and it was fun, and guess what i have jus put her in the first row of my list, i see her as wise and smart

their is nothing wrong with it, relationship is mutual:-(about the two)

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My guy,

Nothing strange about that, your friends are probably too old fashion.

It takes two to make a relationship work, you contribute, she also does,

so enjoy yourself and i must say you are lucky to have a girl like that. Have fun.

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kizito902 FOR THE SCHOOL WAN YOU GO DEY NO TEACH YOU ENGLISH

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nana

why is evry body attacking u,

i guess u don snatch some ppl boy friend here.

lol

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It aint wrong. Done it before and would love to do it again! She did it out of her own free will. All u have to do is enjoy the moment and say 'Thank You'.

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thank ur stars and watch ur friends. some of them secretly wish thier babes take them out.

i kno guys who complain their babes don't LAVISH[i][/i] care on them.

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I cannot wait for that opportunity. though my babe offsets some bills atimes, she has never asked me out so to say. grab it if it comes. no stress. don't ask for it. it makes you less human

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well i think dere is notin bad in dat, cus d gal wants to show appreciation of what u hav been doing afterall u have been the one who has been doin the outing so she wants to take charge dat day nd dats all its a nice one that u gave her the chance

but guy am not telling you to go ask ya bee to take u out if she does willingly den ok

take kia guy

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kini big deal

na wahhoo na only man dem talkk say make im dey spend, ,?

wat a man can do a woman can do beta

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There is nothing wrong with it.

I have taken my hubby out a couple of times and paid for it out of my seperate account.

It does not make him less of a man because he and I know what kind of man he is, why should i be worried about what someone who gets paid $2.00 an hour thinks of us.

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can u allow ur chick to sleep with a dog really?

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there is absolutely nothing wrong in a girl taking a guy out for a date. after all what is dat all about.?if it comes 4rm the girl that she wants to take a guy out , the guy should boldly accept and shun what others may feel or say. afterall it is give and take.

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Do you really want ur girl to sleep with a dog?Mehn ur brain de go far o.

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Do you really want ur girl to sleep with a dog?Mehn ur brain de go far o.

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I do not find anything wrong in that

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Guys beware if your socalled girl never takes you out or pay for some for you or spends her hard earn money on you then you dont mean much to her. If a girl loves you she will be ready to sleep with a dog if that will get you out of trouble.

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she meant to harm , but i dont no may be she will abuse with it tomorrow.

but even with that.

i dont see anything wrong with that

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you are just about the luckiest guy alife. cherish what you have, it is gold

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not at all. just depends on how she goes about it.

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y are u guys always complaining abt other poeple eglish,

this is not a class.

in a place like this, u can decide to write anyhow without check it b4 sending because u dnt care. so if some 1 's english is an error. its not a big deal

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to  me, it not a big deal.

infact the saturday night she called me, i took her out that saturday and she new i would not think of going out on sunday, so i guess she really want to take me to a sweet place, where i will see beautiful faces that will make me 4get about the stresses am facing.

i was really glad to be there, i enjoyed mysel,f but u no since my guys also compalined i was like

is it wrong?

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I see no big deal in a babe taking a guy out. As long as this doesn't come on regular basis.

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Yes, it is wrong. . . . .It's TACKY!!!

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but even some of my guys too said no its not ok.

that how will i now go out with my babe and she do the spending when i have too much money in my pocket.

but even when i tryed to stop her from spending, she get annoyed and say do i think she is here with me because of my cash. so jst let her.

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nuthin wrong with it. . . i take my boys out all d time

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@ poster

Its cool, Why don't you just relax and enjoy the ride,

Infact I enjoy taking my guy out sometimes. If I can't spend my money on him, then I am probably self-centered.

Cheers

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Your female friend that appears shock abt ur gals gesture has a warped leecher mindset. . .

enjoy you outing brov

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You have a confident and strong lady.

Be proud of her and enjoy.

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