I would like to know anyone's thoughts on the matter,
What are the main differences, if any at all?
Never and I mean NEVER pray to lose a lover thru death
You will almost feel like dying yourself.
i say losing them through death cox u will never by chance see them again, they r gone with the wild but through leaving by chance u might still see them and knw that there r still there.
Better to lose a lover than love a loser!
Loose a partner through leaving is worse. When your partner dies you know even when they leave this world, they have you in their hearts.