A friend of mine has been dating a guy for the past two and half years, The relationship has been going smoothly, the guy stays in US while she lives in Nigeria but the guy visits once in a year, but they talk on phone and chat online very well.
Recently my friend told to me what has been going on between herself and her boyfriend!
Her crimes are:
She is a virgin and He wants her but she refused due to religious beliefs and also some other known reasons, said she wants to wait till her wedding night. The guy said "Body no be firewood, say he don dey wait for long"
He says she doesn't know how to keep her man, how to make him stay.
He says my friend is a "omo mummy"
The last time they spoke on phone, He told her that he is not coming home this year because he can't come and just be looking at her face, or holding her hands on the streets. He says he wont be calling her frequently like before and to be know how true that is, I called my friend yesterday and she said he hasn't called in two weeks.
He says If my friend want to wait for him, she should wait, that when he comes back home, even if its 5years time, they will get together then.
From time, I sensed that the guy doesn't love my friend, the only thing he held on to was her virginity and now that she said no again, he wants to dump her, what do you think? maybe he has another girl there, all these guys that stay in UK and US, can't be that faithful to their Nigerian girlfriends because They need someone to warm their bed for them where they are. and they use the ones in Nigeria as MU-MU.