if yes why should it be?
my brother money matters, at least it will buy pampers, cerelac, pears baby products and household items. all these if u are married. if u are not money will buy perfume, mr biggs, tasty fried chicken, recharge cards and all other items used in maintaning ur sweetheart. unless the woman is a hard worker and is interested in meeting her own needs and likes u as u are, which i am sorry to say a number of our female folks do not think in this line. only then can i say that money does not matter in relationships, but i stand to be corrected.
No. Sex and companionship is. Money plays a very huge role in a relationship but its not the basic. It determines how long the relationship will last. The more you have, the more leverage you get. You can get away with stuff when you have money than when you don't. With me love, sex and companionship are the key determinat factors. I would be out of my freaking mind to expect my wife to stick out with me when she really has to go out and beg for food.
Money is not the basic tin but just like the bible says money answereth all tins it also said the love of money is the root of all evil, so to me there shd be a balnce. it plays its own good part in a relationship. its just like a lubrican(oil) in a car/vehicales, it cant takre the place of fuel/petrol. hope u get me. so that is how money is tooo, it has its own good part only that in todays relationship it is over exagerated by both parties.
it also shows the focus of the relationship cos some ladies just want to wack ur money without being ready to settle down with you, while some men/guys feel they can buy love or the lady with thier money,. the qquestion is wat will hapen if the bank goes dries,
so plu and minus, it is important and necessaary to meet basic needs and do some a lot of tins but not BASIC.
I must say money aint the major thing required to make a relationship sustainable but it plays a major factor in the determination of how long a relationship may last.
I was watching a movie on thursday and a man told a sub-mate that he has been married for 48 years, to which the sub-mate asked him how he was able to pull that off.
The man told him the simple truth - You want to stay that long in marriage then you got to have money cause there is a limit to which one can go with you in suffering
Money is essential in every relationship because you would love to have a wonderful time with your partner, you would love take her to exotic places, you would love to buy her fantastic gifts.
But if she's the type of girl that takes advantage of rich guys (extort money from them) then you just have to remain neutral in that relationship.
i have a friend who used to date this guy for 4 years
the guy bank fold up and he was no longer finacially boyant to take care of her needs.
she broke up with him with the excuse that she had to take care of her family and education.
the guy begged and begged!! but all to no avail
he had to move on wit his life
this year the guy is now finacially stable(more than well to do) now the girl is wanting back.
CAN U IMAGINE?
it's not that it's the basic thing but it's the driving force.If you dont have it to take care of your love ones,then you yourself wld not like the experience and definitley a woman does not usually have the heart to cope with the situation. Even though the love is there,the relationship wld still suffer some setback.
It's good that one has enough cash to carry on the affair. For me,I cant watch her suffer because i love her too much and I promise to give her all she needs.