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Is She Playing Hard To Get?

Pls guys help, am going nuts as am hitting the keyborad, there is this girl in my neighbourhood i really like. We use to talk and i observed that she always laugh at my jokes and she seems to be giving me attention.But recently i saw her with a guy and she called me and talked briefly while i joined my friends.On her way back, she saw me again and while i just made a passing comment, she left the guy she was with and came to meet me where i was and from there we started talking and i walked her down.

Meanwhile, i told her that i wanted to see her cos we needed to talk and she even suggested we see the next day. Then, after some days, i called her in the evening and requested she come up to see me but gave excuses that she was busy and that she would flash/call when she is free. LATER she flashed and i was now calling her number and she wasn't picking again.

MY question now is this, Is she playing hard to get or what's going on here. I thinkit will appear wussy and needy to trying to know if she is dating that guy or not. PLS what are your views?

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My personal opinion is that she is really playing hard to get but at the same time, she likes you. Although I'm a female, I personally think that thats plain mean, and girls shouldn't do that ever!!! Cause you know why? If the guy does that to you, I'm sure you will feel like suffocating yourself and you might want to feel like commiting suicide so dont ever do that, and mind you, based on a research, a guy's heart is actually more emotional compare to a girls so please ladies, STOP TORTURING THE GUYS,

My dear, listen, let me tell you something which I think would be useful for you. If you like her and she is playing hard to get, if I were you, you play with the flow. Go and do exactly like what she did to you and then she will surely feel the pressure, But dont overdo it otherwise she would think that you are no longer interested. Do the same like she did to you but at the same time maybe write her memorable letters (not love letters yet) or give her something as a gift (cuddly stuff animals, bling) but of course dont do that too often as well. And then if she is still playing th game, maybe you could go out with a girl as a general friend infront of her and make her jelous.

See what happens,

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from my own experience. I think u should cool off and let her be. If she really likes you. She will approach and then you could tell her how you feel.

Remember to DISCIPLINE ur mind

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chisi anyi no'ya,anyi ne bi,akwa oru na gazi ofuma?unu jisike

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@jenny, nobody is fighting nobody, inugo?

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nothing its jst best to ignore them

chisimdi ke kwanu,ahu odikwa gi?ndi bee gi kwanu

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oh my gawd,may God have mercy on some pple on dis forum

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@senseless kiddies?, have u seen one before?

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@9cent

my dear it depends on d kinda kids dat come my way,senseless kiddies are not invited

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jenny exactly wat i taught.

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@jenny, now u are goin outter line. yeah, every woman need a man in her life to succed just the way the men need them as well to survive.

i'm right in my room relaxing and trying talk to peeps here so i wonder were else u want me to go and relax.

and im not a kid, maybe you should check ouit my profile to see me.

hmm, i kinda have the believe that people like you are those who get mad at kids who comes to seek for an advice so that they dont make mistakes.

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chisimdi like seriously,d guy sounds like a kid

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u wont see sense in it because you're still a kid,who da hell told u a woman is scared to tell a guy her age?and what makes u think a woman needs a man to survive or make it in this life,go and rest 9cent abeg

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@jenny, nah i ain't. and there's nothing in your english to understand cuz i dont see no sense in it.

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@ib,

not wanting to tell had got to do with >  i'm scared he might dump me after figuring out my real age.

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abeg 9cent i no get ya time,it will be silly of any woman or man to keep singing his/her age to everybody as if its a national anthem

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@jenny, how is it immature? seem they have a purpose for doin so, right?

@ib, yes, cuz now jenny said it's immature, , sounds like they are scared something might happen if they should make there age known. dont u think?

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they are not scared.but it is very childish for a lady to announce her age to everybody,that is immaturity of d highest order

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@jenny, nothing so serious,

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why r u concerned about my age 9cent

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@jenny,

u should be in your 30's by now, right?

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@jenny,

wetin be your own age sef?

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@welli, elli, weaky.

well, sorry for down grading your age. i wonder  what u still waiting for at 30 yet ain't got no kid.

i'm already singing my wedding song right in my mind. very soon, its gonna hit the town, dont worry, u and few peeps right here will grace the event ok

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kai welli u too dey dream calm down ,no be so age dey fly abeg

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9cent,just kiddin.he's ma bro.dnt think i ve d strength to go tru child bearing now

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@welli,

u sounds like a sweet 16. though lotsa sixteen dis days are mothers already, errmm, i kinda wonder what kinda strenght u talking bout now.

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most ladies are so scared of making there age known.

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@welli,

were did u got dat pic from?,

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i don born ohhh.wait mk i upload my last born pic

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jenny don kill me ohh.werin consain me wit borrow pose.well na my bro sha.wetin u mean?say i neva reach to born?

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RAMPANT UR BRO? SO YOUNG!he's fine sha

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ozioma na u know,so gi ma

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Wahala dey o. Abeg na wetin I do? Jenny help me here O!!! I no wan fall inside trap o.

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which kain language u .use reply sef ozioma

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u asking me? . . go figure!!

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 Wetin dat one come mean now?

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  You need no appointment to let a girl know you feel for her. be bold enough to walk to her face and let her know how you feel for her, don't ask her what's her mind. finish your discussion walk out of her, it's her duty to think and start putting you into consideration. Women hate a talkative or a story teller at the initial stage.

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lol . . if u can't eat it, don't dish it!!

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Jenny, I dont reaaly like all this yabbing ok. Abeg make we stop am. No be say I really like eo yab but na u just dey throw me stone and make e no be like say I be,     , U don get am?

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See If I handle u, U go born Tripet.

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Se make I like person wey don already get big belle already when she never dey Pregnant. Abeg I no dey for that one O because I no go fit describe how she go be when she don come actually get belle for me.

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 I dey smile no be say I dey laugh big time. Na your belle make U go find solution to.

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ibkaye u see cescky wants u to leave saucekid for him,he is quite interested in u,but i told him u love saucey wella and wella but he does not want to hear anything like dat,pls tell him wt ur mouth abeg

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na so madness dey start small small

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Ibkaye U sef talk something for this matter now or na why U dey silent since?

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