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she called to tell me she was broke, she has a better job than i do, i sent her a thousand naira with pleads to her to manage it for i know she is worth more than that,but it was all i could get at the time.

i called to inform her that i 've sent the money and all she could say was:

"u are sending a thousand naira to a whole me,

do u know i sent credit worth of 4 - 5 thousand naira in credit to people?

i don't think i can continue this way with this relationship

i got pissed off andhit d roof,calling her bluff.she keep calling me but i ignore her calls

would u have reacted differently if u wrer in my shoes

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Why does he have to give her money can't she work?

The guy isnt swimming in money and being tight fisted. This kind of attitude stinks. We females need to wise up you shouldnt have to wait for any man!

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Well, she maybe right?

Since the ur story isn't broad enough, i'll create a perspective.

Looking at it from an angle that though true she earns far above u, and probably has never asked u such favour. She might actually be stunned that that's all u cld get her. U might have been too blinded groaning over the fact that she earns more than u to actually see that she really actually needed the money & finds it difficult asking anybody else but her boyfi.

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@ AJ

I beg to differ jare. The girl get serious issues. When a friend asks me for money, even if I have a cent, I'll still give it to her. Here is not a matter of disgracing yourself. For goodness sake, this is your girlfriend. She knows your situation. Why she go come dey make unnecessary shakara for am? If na me be the man eh, I go go collect the money for her hand.

By the ways sef who she dey send credits to? Oh boy shine your eyes. She is sending credits worth 5k to her other boyfriends and when she is broke, she expects you to render her the money? Is she crazy? This one fit make me send am my ten x ten palgues.

Na craze dey worry am!

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She was wrong if indeed it happened d way u posted.

But did u give her that amount becos she earns better than u do or becos u were broke 2?

U guys need 2 talk things thru. Pick her calls and hear wat she has 2 say and tell her u dint like her behaviour.

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i'd say it's unfair to have us judge based on one single financial transaction between u and ur girlfriend.

What's it been like? How much has she given you in question in times past? How often? Is she aware of ur financial capablities or otherwise? Fill in these blanks and u'd get more intelligent and forthright replies.

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If u're serious about this charade of a r/ship, then get less serious cos u shldn't be hanging out with such a person. If she sends credit to ppl worth 5k, she shld call them and not u in her time of need. Move on I say 2 u verily verily

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Did you send her one thousand because that is what you had or because you felt she earns more than you. If your motive for sending the money was because you felt she earns more than you, then you are wrong, but if thats all you had then she is wrong.

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@Lady T

What's up sweetie ! Who's making you mad??

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Just dump the money grabbing hussy, silly cow

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X her man."u are sending a thousand naira to a whole me" That's the part i hate, such a silly comment.

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Well, its the mentality that most girls have that when their man isnt able to provide for their needs when they want, then that shows he doesnt love them.

But thats just a wrong idea to have.

@Poster, u even did ur best to get her what u did, so there is no need beating urself up about anything. But this is just the one case that u are talking about - u know her the best, if u sit down u could decide whether its a reaction that could have come from external pressures e.g her other friends talking about what their 'men' do for them.

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DAMN RIGHT!!!!!!!!!!!

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wat era/centuary are u living in?

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relationships should not rely on financial strenght of men. Her behaviour is very wrong.

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No, it's not right @ all. The man is always the head above the woman.

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Dump her Bottom. She wasn't broke enough.

Imagine: it's like a begger refusing eba like say na him mate dey chop spaghetti!

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Nope! She is not right!

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@post

no. . she is not right

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if she really luvs u,she wouldn't treat u with so much disrespect cos she earns more than u do.think abt it.

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Na wa oo for ya girl friend or missus, there is no respect there at all and she is not right at all.

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