Is she worth it?
Dear fellas, I really need your help on this one. Seven months ago, I fell in love with a lady and I did not hesitate to tell her how I felt. She told me in response that she would think about it. For three months, she was 'still thinking' about my proposal and any time I raised the issue, she would say that she was still 'thinking' about it.
Sometime in the middle of last month, she called me to tell me that she was not interested in an affair with me. Hear her:
GIRL: I have thought about what you said and I want to tell you that I am not interested.
ME: Really? So you have finally thought it over?
GIRL: Yes; and let me tell you that I am disappointed in you. Right from the first day you told me that you were in love with me, I have been disappointed in you.
ME: Ok. I heard you.
GIRL: Are you angry?
ME: No. Why should I?
GIRL: We can still be casual friends.
ME: No problems.
That was it. Personally, I felt I should not chase the case anylonger. I reasoned that one cannot force love on another person especially on a lady. I laid back and faced other issues.
You can imagine my surprise when I received an sms from her yesterday. Here's a rundown of the message.
'Now I know that all your calls before is because you want something. I must say that I am disappointed in you. Thanks for your co-operation.'
Later, I responded with this sms:
'Thanks for the text. Twice you have said you are disappointed in me. No problems. It's just that I am begining to see something in you that I never thought was there before.'
This morning, she sent another one:
'It's good that you are just knowing about me; but as for me, I have known long ago that you are a hypocrite'
Now my dear members, please tell me if I commited a crime by letting her go? She said she was not interested in starting a relationship with me and I let the matter ride. Why then is she 'haunting' me. Please tell me what do I do? Is she worth the trouble?