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Is Sorry Hard For You To Say?

It is a single word,yet it is d most difficult for alot of people,d word is SORRY!

I have issues with my girlfriend simply cos she can't say sorry.What is wrong in sayin' sorry?Does it make u feel less of a man or woman?Does it make u feel cheap?I really don't get it mostly cos i use it so often & it helps calm things,even wit my so-called girlfriend.

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Some people find it hard to say for the reasons you listed. But like Siena said, meaning it is harder. I'd rather someone doesnt say sorry to someone who says it every 5 seconds but really it means nothing.

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@popup;, i like dat

@ebila;, get d bro msg,though it's hard atimes but 2 b d man nd b in charge"learn 2 drop ur wings nd say 'sorry' even wen u're espectng it frm her" it works 4 those dat cares

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@topup: I am very gentlemanly so i actually use sorry each time i'm wrong,sometimes when i'm not,just to make things flow,but when i decide on somethin',it could take God to change my mind.

@diva1: Ur boyfriend is very unreasonable,just like my girlfriend.

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u don yarn my mind finish

sometimes saying sorry to douse a tension may save you a lot of trouble later

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Nope I can sorry easily, but recently with friends, it's becoming harder for them to get me to say it - I guess only when I'm adamant that I'm correct. When proven wrong, I will easily admit that I'm wrong.

It's pride, maybe she needs to eat a good slice of humble pie.

Saying sorry flows easier, when the person you're apologising to is understandable, who wants to admit they're wrong when the other person is yelling in their face. The normal human reaction is to stand tall and defend yourself, some people cower - but really, that's only SOME people.

Talk to her and explain how you feel, be more self aware, and if you are incorrect, don't hesitate to apologise even if she hasn't begun to, because two wrongs don't make a right.

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It's not hard for me and I say it a lot to douse tension. It's hard for some ppl cos of personal pride.

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I find it hard to say when I feel I'm not wrong but when I'm wrong and I know it, it's easy.

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I think every wise person should find it easy to say "I'm sorry."

It's only d pride n arrogant who when dey are wrong, cannot accpet it n say "sorry"

Dat word "sorry" heals, calms n restors a lot of -ve things.

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Saying sorry's pretty easy.

Hardest part is actually meaning that seemingly contrite word.

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my bf is the most difficult person i had ever come across. No matter how little or much, he doesn't just hear sorry, you would have to beg, beg n beg, it could even take days, weeks, monthsss. I could be very angry n boil but once i hear the "Sorry" word, it's easy for me to melt, then i can analyse the situation. " Sorry" is losing its value.

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@Diva1: Can i xchange u wit my gurl?

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@ournaija: Of course i am in charge.Sayin' sorry does not mean u're cheap.

@izeek: Y is sorry d hardest word?

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a popular song by lighthouse, say " sorry seems to be the hardest words".

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"I am sorry" could be too expensive to say by some people especially when the person they are to say it to is considered too cheap. Maybe there is no good reason to waste it on you. Are you sure that you are in charge ?

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dats s d word i don fink i can say that easily, no mata wat even wen i have to say it its not from the deepest of my heart.

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Sorry? hardest word?? I find it the easiest to say especially to a loved one.

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