i feel asking a girl out is different from toating her
asking her out: you'll probably present yourself the way you truelly are. if u broke yes u'll tell her and u end up spending less (money wise on her). the reason for all these is that u want her to love u the way u are cus u want a long time relationship. but this doesnt mean u dont treat her right though. most marriages that last long are those where the girl was asked out. thats wat an elderly happy married man told me o.
toasting: lavish her, present yourself like u the bomb! wow. u can take her to golden gate evry evening even though u end up swallowing garri, groundnut and no sugar within ur 4 cornered room. the essence is that u wanna impress her and f, her as soon as possible. this works well with cheap girls
i really dont know if am right but is there a difference?