I really like this lady. But i just think the age gap could be a hindrance.
A whole 7 years? Thats child abuse on the lady's path! Dont even try it. Wait a minute. Do you even think atall? Use your head. I believe you have some brains there. Have you thought of ageing? The people advising you to go for it are not facing the reality. They wont be there when your wife is 50 and you are just 43. Aint saying your marriage aint gonna work out. My point is you will regret it in the long run.
@ Valacious, let's look at it this way; a lady, 25
who married a man, 40 and have been married been together for 20 years. How do you think she'l be feeling about the man who would look very old compared to her at 45 when she is still attractive? Or how else would you view Yerima and his 13 year old bride, say in 10 years from now. I think the world has subjugated women enough, its right time things get done not for gender sakes but for normality and why they have to be done.
is she African? if she is, then you might have a problem; the adage "age aint nothing but a number" is actually kind of foreign to African culture. An african lady 7 years older could be up to 7years advanced than you in many areas check this thread to get a feeling of what i mean http://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-484727.0.html cheers