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Is There Really Anything Unforgiveable In A Relationship?

is there anything you would be unable to forgive in a relationship or are you of the school of thought that love covers a multitude of sin? what one thing would your love do to you that you would never be unwilling or unable to forgive either in a marriage or other relationship?

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There is nothing unforgivable, absolutely nothing.

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In actual fact there's nothing dat love shld't b able 2 forgive. So wat it means is dat wat we actually practice is no true love. May b in d best senarious we have a very high sense of affection for d other party. But then again we misunderstand d concept of love forgiving all. Wat it actually means is dat if d person can truly b repentant, den d love dat u feel is willing d give not a second chance, but a fresh chance where, u like wipe off d slate n u dont c wat d person did, but u him/her as she currently is repentant n willing 2 start again without goin back 2 d act. There's no point in giving d person a fresh chance if he/she's not repentant or if u r not sure dat d deed wld not b repeated.

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Getting another girl pregnant. I dint say cheating (cuz that is inevitable and pardonable in the long run)

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there are a handful of things i cannot forgive in a relationship and even if i forgive, i will neva take him back.love can not cover every wrong i will not be a door mart in the name of love,sometimes love is just not enough

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Really am a soft heartd person but if she carry my harmbugger give another man chop I'll 4give her bt d memory will linger on.

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Yes, lying and cheating, Gbam!!!!

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if u rilly ,deeply and trully love the person u will find it in ur heart to forgive------------------just cos ur man or gal cheats on u does not mean he has commited the worst abomination---------------------------the relationship may not continue butu shuld be able to forgive

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I wil forgiv but the affair may not continue.

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no there is nothing. if u are madly and foolishly in love, u will forgive just anything. from experience!

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cheating on me i cant tolerate that if its becoming more of an atitude than a mistake then am out of the relationship

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Cant forgive if trust is broken

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@alpacaem

Very rightly said. I definately agree with you.

But before we go on forgiving, we must make sure that the

cause of the problem is looked into and addressed.

Sometimes, a second offence can be so bad that you can't

recover from it.

For instance, men that end up crippling/disabling their wives after

beating them repeatedly.

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I would forgive justabout everything - once!

such as : him sleeping with another woman, beating me, stealing for me, etc.

for example - if he found out my husband was cheating on me - and I talked to him about it and asked him to stop, as we've sorted our problems and he still cheated on me - I'd have to seriously re-look at our relationship.

Everyone is entitled to a mistake and Everyone is entitled to a second chance - we are only human after all.

Fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me - is a popular UK fraze.

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If the guy keeps cheating on me. I'll let him go without any consideration.

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IF YOU REALLY LOVE THE PERSON DEFINETLY YOU GOT TO FORGIVE AND FORGET.BUT IF YOU KNOW THAT YOU ARE FAKING THE LOVE THEN YOU CANNOT FORGIV.IF MY BOYFRIEND HAD TO DO SOMETHING WRONG TO ME AND HE COMES TO SAY SORRY THEN WHATS MY REASON NOT TO FORGIVE HIM.GOD FORGAVE YOUR SINS SO WHO ARE YOU NOT TO FORGET SOMEONE YOU LOVE.

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i would forgive anything. if my partner was to sleep with another woman--- i would have to see what is wrong in our relationship that he feels he had to even think about doing that in the first place, and if he slipped up and is truely sorry, then God will forgive him, so must i also.

i think a lot of people will say that if he knows this he will take advantage of it, well no, not for me and my relationship because we are both in God, and both desiring to be the best we can be in our relationship with each other and, more importantly, with God.

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Sure if i do catch my chick on top another guy, i go disown am straight

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if a guy betrays ma love 4 him

dat would be his end

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