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Is this called cheated on??

My man broke up with me because of snooped.

But we got back togethers after and he told me how he couldn't trust me because in the future i might snooping again.

I told him I'm not going to do that again.

And he also told me to do whatever I want because he don't give a mess. He got things to focused than worrying about what I might do.

Last weekend, I lost the feeling for him and wanting to break up with him soon, and I met another man from the party and he have no idea that I'm taken. I kissed him and nothing else more than just a kiss.

When I got home, I felt bad for unfaithful but the good thing is that they don't know each other.

I have a question,  If I lost the feeling for him, and is going to break up with him AND kissed another man is still called cheated on?

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@21Bee

You are 17 are having a bf, is ur mum aware of all these. I doubt if u r still a virgin.

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@ mamaput do you have internet access in your buka. I'm even surprised thet even mama-put these days are becoming computer literate.

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ehe, got no comments cos u shot me with your grammatical bullets n its affecting my thinkin faculty as far as this topic is concernd!!

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I tried it once, i was initially alarmed at the amount of fat it contained. Then ended up with an upset stomach!

It's great when you cut it in little pieces in stews.

Yeah, has anyone got that powder for making instant pepper soup? i saw it for the first time at an aunt's place.

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you mean stomach?

very good aroma very good for pepper soup

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do not laugh try it with lettuce and tomato.

They sell it as sausage slices here in Germany and its not cheap

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yeah i remember my mom using hot water to peel the top off, i think that's the best part though. I dont peel it off, just cook long enough to get it soft.

Well if you cut it in cubes then that makes sense, its possible to just fry it until its a bit brown.

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may be.

There was this Russian woman she will cook it and then cut it in very thin stripes and make a cold buffet out of it. or on her sandwitch

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I boil it b4 i fry.

In Nigeria we used to peel off that hard part with hot water. But it dose not work here wounder why.

But if you do not like your meat hard do not do it

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yeah, i thought about that too. How do you fry the top part that you need to boil for a long time to get it soft enough to eat?

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Fried cow tongue

Now, that's just wrong!

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i'll try that this week though not so much a fan of fried beef. Do you slice it thin like suya?

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No boil it then fry it . very well .

eat with pepper and onions suya style

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boil it and then put it in a stew. Pepper and onions? now that's one i shld try pretty soon.

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duh! cook it of course!

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i dont think so, i havent been a huge seafood fan since i was a kid. Maybe sardines once in a while or the mackerel my mom used to make in a unique way that i liked.

Meat all the way!

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seafood.?

You do not know what you are missing

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i dislike chicken. Goat is another matter, i'll be practically living in the kitchen!

I dont do crabs or seafoods in general.

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cow tongue.

I will go and buy my own tomorrow,iwilladd crab , goat and chicken

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Too late the groundnuts rice and stew i gave my kids for lunch have finished

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Rice and stew for lunch! Same here, i cooked yesterday waiting for my brother to show up!

Havent seen a cartoon in months. how is my wife and cat?

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nothing. I refuse to go into cheap exchange of words with you now. I am bigger than that. enjoy the solo fightyou want to follow me because we disagree? fine. you want to run yourself mad? fine. but you will do it alone. bye

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Tell us your age first ,.

No am not educated see my name its mamaput that should tell you everything.

By the way what are you doing here its lunch time go and feed your family or do you want to end up like me.?

jealous of fairy tales . come off it.

Okey i lied am jealous a bad mother but you are not the first to find out . And a man hater yes. so now what.

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Well what else would you want to call that if not cheating? you kissed another man while he was not there? ask yourself this question, would you still go ahead to kiss him if your boyfriend was there? i do not think so.

At 17 i think you should be able to put 2 and 2 together but honestly i think you should stick to yourself and try build your life. Life's too short and precious to waste it at a lil age.

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venusmaze

You were so good in Quoting Lady T and what she said about personal life.

I advise you to keepyour mother out of this topic .

Every one takes their mother for holy OK.

But Back to , You Lie .

Mama put says you lie.

A Good girl never talks about here totto statues.

My daughter fucks yes but you will never find her talking about her status in a forum like you are doing Married or not.

Go and be a good mama like your mama get off the forum and take care of your kid.

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sorry so sorry, i use very few words like you know in my profession, abbreviations are the norm for me, so i have to try by best here.

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Well am not your mother and i have a mind of my own.

And i did not tell anyone to have a boyfriend. Go and bring one quot were i made that statement.

If i say its okey to have a boyfriend its not the same as saying go and get a boyfriend.

If i had started talking about my Village here ,21Bee would have preferred that to people asking her why she has a boyfriend.

By the way how old are the people asking her how old she is,?

Just because you want to play goody two shoes means nothing.

Its not about when you started but the number of men ABI

A woman can start dating at 30 but she can very fast overtake the woman that started with 15.

WE should start a topic with "How many men have you had sex with".

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whatever,

I don't think it's cheated so sall good.

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mamput

fair enough , i have read some replies to topics here by you and you have gone beyond the point in many cases, sometimes going so far removed from the topic than anyone can imagine, talking about your village etc. So please don't you think you are being sanctimonious by picking and choosing when you want to answer a question to the point? You can do this, if you choose, but don't accuse others of doing what you so often do. Just thought i say that. Please i don't  want a long drawn debate about on or off point issues.

Lady T i think summed up what i wanted to say. Please don't take things personal. it is a public forum and those who bare their private lives here can expect some form of criticism, it goes without saying. i know for a fact my mother wont come here telling a 17yr old to have a boyfriend, ifthe girl has a bf then she does, but my mum won't endorse it .FACT.

Sorry to 21Bee its about you at the end of the day, so back @topic

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mamaput whether you like it or not if you ask people to put their two cents in you get more than you bargained for. Thats what happens. If you don't like it don't ask for public opinion.

And I only think your getting a bit upset because your daughter is her age and has a boyfriend and you feel like shes being judged.

Personally I would advise young people to have as much fun as possible theres loads of time for the heart ache that goes with relationships.

By thats just my two cents.

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venusmaze all she wants to know is was she cheating,.

she did not come here to ask if she is old enough to have a boyfriend.

And not because some people did not have a boyfriend all must do it that way.

Its like saying my way is the right way. There is no right way.

There are even married people with kids still studying.

That is the problem with Nigerians.When some one is telling something and asking . rather than just answer they go off point ask another question . well something like what is happing here.

The deed is done so just answer

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all this self righteous people sef,abeg make i hear word.

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my boyfriend is 18

well, i don't know if it's still called cheated on. =/

yes snooping or snooped mean spy

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For me its not cheating. its just sealing the breakup.

I will break up with him and learn from my mistake.Stop snooping nobody likes it.

She did not ask if she is old enough to have a boyfriend.

My daughter is 17 and has a boyfreind. Nothing wrong with it.

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Thank you T

he broke up with her because she spied on him lol

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Means she was spying on him.

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snooped? snooping?

what does that mean?

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Hang on how old is your boyfriend?

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you both dont seem to know what you are doing!

Go and study! At 17 i was busy reading my books not bothering about whether i was cheating on someone or not!

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lol no i'm not 15.

im 17

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I would say closer to 15 you sound very young.

He doesnt care what you do. Hes already stated that. I doubt he cares about you. If you dont love him just break up and move on.

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why?

i'm in the age of between 15-19

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Eat it put it in a stew . cut it in thin stripes or just fry it with pepper and onions

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