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there is this girl in my church i got to know her through the elder brother who introduce her to me , after our first meet, i often see her but when ever we meet she will accusing me of avoiding her, that i am running away from her, i dont want to see her again ,the truth is that i love her so much but i don't know whether she feels love for me please help me and tell me what to do.

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@ Skyfaze

Are you sure you understand what they have said?

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thanks for your advice i will do as you said

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@saucekid

lol---- na akara i for don bring

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chai. . . . . wey i don dey believe say u don close shawarma down

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*welcome ooooooo*

wetin u buy come??

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Hi saucekid. just browsin thru nairaland

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*welcome janami, where have u been all this while??*

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@poster

find out. ask her

@others

nuttin wrong with falling in love with someone in thesame church with u. Why does it sound like an offence? i dnt see a beta place to fall in love with someone sef.

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it won\'t be out of place to tell in a cultured way

how you\'re feeling about her,

don\'t approach her as if you\'ll die if she turns you down;

or, you\'ll conquer the world for her if she accepts you!

it may not be the best step to take- avoiding her!

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bros is not that i am underage, but for my church i dey claim say i holy pass that is the problem and i don't want to loss my EGO

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@ifyalways

just lif de guy. no vex at all.

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how old are you?

because you sound underage

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rubish

@poster

she likes you!

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zignorr my man,i call this church romance

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while no one likes to be rejected, it is a way of life,

walk up 2 her and open up, u dont wanna end up saying coulda woulda shoulda

how can u know if u don't try,

if she doesnt feel the same, it'llonly hurt 4 a while, time heals everything

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Grow up and stop acting like a kid; confront her and tell her how you feel.

Or is it when some smarter guy snatches you from her before you wake up?

Just go and tell her, she won't kill you for expressing your feeling towards her; I don't know why most guys are so scared of rejection.

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Exactly what I said, u're afraid she'll say no, that means u're scared of rejection

Get close to her, don't just ask her out like that, try being friends with her, that way you will know if she likes you or not, if not, then don't bother asking her out, hmm well some girls pretend they don't like u but they do, but u get my point

If u keep holding back, thinking some girl will say no to u, u will remain single for life, u need to get over ur fear and go talk to her

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if she says no, then problem solved, you will soon find out that you don't really love her after all. Cos rejection will sure kill that love fast. If it is and it goes well then all the best

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i don't think i am the shy type,but i am afraid if she say no

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Factorchic Bless your heart my thoughts exactly

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If she says you are avoiding her,please just give it a try.I sense she likes you too.Don't be a coward man.

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So, u're one of those guys that are scared of rejection, Before you do anything, that's one thing u need to overcome (Rejection), Get out there and go talk to her.

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hey almondjoy, how far now? where u been dey since? just saying hi.

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