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Is this normal?

say sum tin pls

i tink i av a gud personality (quite charming)

prayerful

nice apartment (live alone by choice)

cool car

good friends

love, am not in love never av bin (had a wondrful childhood dont get me wrong ono abusive), get along wit women pretty well

planing to marry soon. my head is nt in it,

is dis normal?

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heyy Mr, dont sey he b urself? and sey its u,

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@fatty27

There's no way Fluid would come out of your joystick accidentally. Didn't you study biology in school? Fluid is produced at the testis and each testis is packed with seminiferous tubules (laid end to end, they would extend more than 20 meters) where spermatogenesis occurs.

But urine is just a waste product from the body, which is being discharged through the joystick.

So if an individual passes out sperms alongside urine, then something’s wrong somewhere.

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it can't be accidental. when a man pees he is not supposed secrete sperm.

@ poster

tell your friend to go checked out.

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It may be an accidental discharge.

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It may be an accidental discharge.

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Am not a doctor; but I think it’s abnormal because Fluid and urine are two different secretions entirely. So if you passed out Fluid when you were urinating, I think you should go and see your doctor because something might be wrong somewhere.

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Am not a doctor and i dont think it is an infection but u can ask ur friend if he sees any signs/symptoms.

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my dear am a girl so i definitely can not be in that condition.a friend of mine complained about it and i promised to find out what it is so if u know tell me,if u don't then don't even say anything.

really nana?is it?thanks but how do u know this?

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@poster,

it is an infection jare

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Are you sick? Please tell us more about ur condition.

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hey! tnx alot 4 ur responses, i mst apologize 4 posting it to the auto section. its shows dat am nt a constant poster. pls bear wt me aiight.

once again tnx 4 ur response, 1 luv nairalanders

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Give her benefit of the doubt and I would understand when you say you dont appreciate your romantic messages being shared. Even if there are compliments I think its ok that you feel this way and do ensure you communicate your feelings about the issue to her. Am sure her cousin got her own grey matter, she can think up her own romantic messages if she really has dire need to send one to her man. I think may be you want some things kept private to you and your honey and thats completely understandable hey.

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Since yo are not sure, you just have to take her word for it until you probably catch her or have othe reasons to suspect her.

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Accepted, but what if the girlfriend sent the same text message to another man?

Have anyone looked at or thought about that possibilty?

These people (women) you can never know where you are with them.

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It might be as innocent as she said. Your gf's ccousin probably thought the text was romantic and decided to send it to her boyfriend.Dude, they just paid you a compliment,be happy

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Take it to love zone and you will get better response.

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oga this is the autos section of nairaland.

here all we talk about are cars, cars and more cars.

u can carry your discussion to the romance section on nairaland to get all the advice u need,

cheers

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I think its normal sha, maybe she's not insecure and for her it might be her way of saying until u put a ring on it, you won't see me Unclad.

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Poster maybe you should talk to her about it make sure you compliment her and assure her that she is the beautiful. Women nowadays are insecure because there is so much pressure to look like those super-airbrushed celebrities.

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no she's not fat. in fact she's tall, slender and very pretty and incredibly sexy. i just dont understand why she's so insecure.

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Even the most beautiful women have insecurities.

As some people have mentioned, unless you are prepared to put a ring on it, you will continue doing the do in the dark.

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SHE IS AN HERMOPHRODITE.TRUST ME I MET ONE B4

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I suspect she must be having some kind of skin disease. If you have physically examined all her body part while in the love making session, and all is intact, then she must be having a form of a disease, which she is working towards recovering from.

A woman whom you constantly shag is not shy.

I wish you all the best with her.

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OP -

Love goes way beyond f.uck. If you guys are shagging and yet she can not afford to be Unclad with you, then there is a problem. Love has a lot to do with acceptance. it may be OK if a "one night stand" babe refuses to be seen Unclad or if she decides she won't go Coverless for you, but if you both are shagging in the name of love then you have to be more open. And yes, she can continue like that in marriage if you guys don't work on it now.

You may need to work more on reassuring her of your love and acceptance of her. No matter what, please don't go ahead without addressing that situation o.

A situationwhere a man never sees his woman Unclad is a good ground for cases of women hiding pregnancies for (or lying about being pregnant to) men they live with.

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Next time you do it hide a flashlight under the pillow. Then when she is all caught up in the moment just pull it out. LOL.

I am kidding o before she makes you swallow that flash light. In all seriousness though there has to be a problem.

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its normal,she's just shy

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I believe she's hiding something because I find it difficult to understand why a girl would have sex with a guy she claims to love, yet she hides her unclothedness from him. I disagree with those that blamed her attitude on shyness; fact is if she's really shy, then she won't have had sex with you in the first place

She's definately hiding something.

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She's nt shy.

If it were 2 b shynes u guys wont ve sex.so try 2 find out y.

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She's shy but she's having sex regularly, roflmao.

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Its normal, though most BBW or chubby girls don't like removing their cloth with light on, infact i was with a girl who refused to remove her cloth untill i turn off even the TV.

She is so insecure of her body cos pple told her that fat girls are ugly. That did not bother me, with time she becomes free with me and feel free around me.

Give her time, she will over grown it.

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Similar thing happened to my friends some years ago. There was this girl he was dating and the girl would never want him to touch her bosom or get it out of the bra. They had sex several times. Something happened and this guy had to force the pair out of their hiding only to find out that the bosom have been seriously sagged. He was lucky to understand later that the girl already had 3 children for another man. Something she never mentioned to him and they have been planning to get married! He had to simply call it a BIG QUIT!

Bros, shine your eyes oooo.

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she's probably just shy or insecure

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Im sure you feel her up when you are doing the do and Im sure everything is intact. Maybe she is a little insecure.

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Hang on , there is something behide the scene.

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Hmmm I guess u are worried if she has some sort of bodily defect huh? Well u touch her frequently doesn't everything seem ok? And since u gonna marry her well she can't hide once u are married can she?

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Don't blame PMS, she's just plain old moody. But some people ARE moody, and that is normal,

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its no big deal

it doesnt mean shes an ogbanje,sm people r like that

if u aint comfortable wt d mood swings then leave her and go for smone else,dnt make it look as if d girl has got a problem or sthg

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jeez ur wrong, women's mood change like geysers, on and off , men have steadier moods it only swings when we are broke.

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jeez ur wrong, women's mood change like geysers, on and off , men have steadier moods it only swings when we are broke.

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She is just the modern day jyklle and hyde. lol!

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What is so strange to me is that i have noticed guys to be moody in a sense than women. I mean their mood can change with one word.

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Someone like that is of no use to me.

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Temperamental, even without cause

Moody, doesnt smile again,

And totally lost her sense of humour.

This kind of women will make your life a misery, stay clear.

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my best guess is dat she's pregnant

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She could just be a wee bit moody you know. Or something might be troubling her. . .

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thats exactly what ive been saying oo. . . . . . . . . i mean im the exact opposite of moody, so why stick around with someone that will bring u down with her moodiness. even when im not in my happiest mood, as soon as im around other people i just dont let it show becos i know its goin to affect other people around me. Its a NO NO!!!

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Maybe she's doing it to get attention.

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