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Is This Not A Sign For Me To Back Off?

Great guys of NL,please i need your advice on this issue that has been bothering my mind, I have a girl friend that i'm dating we have been together almost going to 2yrs and some months,i love her so much, But i'm about changing mind to continue the relationship due to somethings i have been noticing almost going to 4months i noticed that her health is not balance,if she is sick today she will be ok the following day, it has been happening to her often complaining about headache,i tried all i could to show her how much i loved her, I met her as a virgin and presently she is still a virgin,my fear is that should i continue with this relationship with her?I'm scared because i don't want to experience this kind of situation when i finally settled down,

Presently she is in the hospital,but she is ok for now, Please guys i need your advice,i don't want to break her heart because she loves me so much as well,

Thanks,

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Thanks,that is exactly why i'm worried, But i'm glad she is ok now,i will tell her to avoid pure water, I'm so grateful gr8 guys of NL you have rebuilt my courage, May God bless you all.

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i'd be worried if the one who i wanted to spend my future with was continually falling ill. So now you know what it is thank God you can move from there typhoid is quite funny and if not treated persistently and continually within the time frame could keep coming back perhaps this was the case. Please let her avoid pure water and start boiling her drinking water.

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Well, am glad you now know. At least I know that is not a fatal disease. It probably persisted because of late discovery and worry not because this illness is purely treateable and much more so with commonly available antibiotics. She'll be fine I believe. It also wouldnt be a bad idea to consider vaccination (Ty21) when she has fully recovered. Anyways, am glad you are relieved now. Take care aite.

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Thanks everyone for your advice,

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So until i become 30, that is when to start relationship?Huh

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Guys, the reason this guy told you he met her a virgin and she is still one was to avoid all venom spitting organisms so lets save him some. @poster, listen to your mind and check how much you really love her, but remember, love is not blind e dey see road well.

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ask for her genotype.

she cld be one of those peeps who get easily infected.

which ever away just find a way to tackle the problem

if you think u can't cope,leave her(but on a friendly note)

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Kids like you should stay away from relationships.

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just use Amoxil to send it packing, dnt think u shud be bothered by TYPHOID wen AIDS,  Flu; swine and bird, Cancer, Sickle cell are all lurking in the shadows

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Maybe she's an Sickler!!!

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I do not know whether this is a sign for you to backoff, but I can tell you dat this is a sign dat u do not truly love her.

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I'm saying a big thanks to everyone of you,to both people who condemned me about this issue, thank you @Ani Lee,@Yumi ,@pc guru @busy_body thanks to you all, She has gone for Test at the hospital,her sickness is Typhoid, @Ani lee being in the health field i'm sure you will reason with me why i'm worried,the Typhoid sickness keep coming and going that is why i'm worried,i have been meditating about this issue on my mind before i finally came to NL to make a thread, You guys are great and your words are encouraging and wonderful,Now i'm loving her more and more,

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what is being a virgin got to do with her ill state, ridiculous dude. anyways if the sickness just started recently i think its just that u guys have not found out what is wrong with her take her for an overall test, and be paitent

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Ok forget all those rude replies and listen to me. I wont claim to know what you are going through but i understand we are all different and different things can make different people fear. What someone finds easy i dont automatically expect you to find easy. Now I understand her ill health has been of great concern to you and I notice you have clearly stated that this came to your attention about 4 months ago. Being in the health related field, my first and foremost advice to you (which should be rather obvious) is to find out what is really wrong with her. What do the doctors say and you must be strong and prepared to take anything in. At least once you know, you are able to make a decision. Cause from the way you are talking, i am picking up the idea that you (or both of you) don't know why her health has trodden downhill so suddenly and strangely. It could be anything so just keep your mind open and heart receptive. Support her in any way you can for now and encourage her it is for the best of both of you. Once you know whats really going on, you can plan the way forward as I have already said. Hope this helps you.

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LOL

What is she getting sick from.

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seriously when is ASUU callin off this strike

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Thanks everybody for your advice,it is not that i'm being childish but this is about future that is why i'm having a second thought, Once again thanks everybody for the advice now i have good courage,

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when you say you love someone

hat do you actually mean

this is an opportunity you have to show it

or else leave her alone so what someone worthy could be by her side

i guess you have seen your life path to the end and you are very sure you may not be sick ever

i pray you meet your kind, those who chicken out on you when the going gets tough

for you to even conceive such thought shows you are immature and need to grow up

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@poster you are so immature.Cuz of sickness you thinking of breaking up.A poor girl is in the hospital you behind a f@cking computer posting poo bout leaving.Before i answer you how old are you?You think relationship come easy sorry boy grow some balls.And pray for her health kiddo.

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@poster you are so immature.Cuz of sickness you thinking of breaking up.A poor girl is in the hospital you behind a f@cking computer posting poo bout leaving.Before i answer you how old are you?You think relationship come easy sorry boy grow some balls.And pray for her health kiddo.

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Leave her and move on with your life.

Life is too important to stay unhappy because u're trying to keep a relationship.

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I didn't fall inlove with her because she is a virgin,But i'm sure she is still a virgin, I have always been supportive to her in every aspect she needed my help, But the sickness issue is really bothering my mind.

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How are u sure shes a virgin.women cant b trusted u knw

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MAY I ASK.

DID U NOTICE DIS 2YRS BACK WHEN U GUYS MEET? IF NO THEN U HAVE TO STAY BY HER NOW OR NEVER

IF TRULLY U MEAN WHAT U JUST SAID '' I LOVE HER'' ITS TIME TO SHOW IT

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