Hi pple.i'm trying to be objective here so thats why i'm using u guys as a sounding board.
A while ago, my man and i had a misunderstanding but as a peace luvin person,i went to him to make amends and since then,my attitude towards him has improved tremendously.hwever heres the catch.since that day(over a month ago) he has stopped calling,we hardly talk,he has distanced himself from me even physically.but when i had a chat with him about these,his rply was he wants me to be patient,that things will soon get better,that he is just taking his time blah!blah!blah!(he even indicated he's not been with anyone else since his celibacy frm me.i wld be a fool to believe that!)
i asked him for help in 2 urgent matters recently but he refused to help saying he has already done alot for me in "cash and kind"can u bloody imagine?what about all what i offered him in kind?i wouldt cheapen myself to start making such claims? So the goods i offered freely,the emotional support i gave, a listening ear, friendship, sympathy+empathy are all pointless to him.
In my mind the relationship is over and believe me,Í i'm no more used to the fact that he's still in my life.the thing i wanna know is do i confront him with the facts about the reality of this failed relationship and tellin him i'm not a fool that i shld believe all his excuses or do i just walk away without a word to him?forum,i need yr comments.