I don’t know if anyone in the house has ever experienced this but I need a fix right now because I'm kinda losing it. I apologise if a similar thread has been posted before but I see my case as that of Benjamin Burton.
Intro: I'm a student in my final year in the University due to Graduate by Sept this year (So help me God). I've got a pretty girl I'm dating and we attend the same school. She is a medical student in her 3rd year and still has about 4 years ahead to become a Doc. We've been together since she was in PreDegree (3 Years +) and to the best of my knowledge I'm her first!
The Issh: I noticed recently that each time after *** she says "Tweety you don’t love me like you used to" I then ask why and she says she doesn’t know but she just feels it. This is not true cos my feelings towards her hasn’t changed. Now this evening she comes to me and tells me she wants my advice over an issue (I normally give her advice on many issues but hell no not this one) She says that there's a dude who's been asking her out and that he wants to marry her ASAP and that he's dead serious and that the guy told her so many things that has put her head on the fast lane and that lots of stuffs are running through her head, Furthermore she tells me that the dude hails from her home town plus other craps you dont wanna know (She also said the dude said he'll wait for her whatever happens cos she told him she's in a relationship). Now she’s been asking me what she should do. She'll be 20 by Sept. Her Elder sis (22) is married though and I'm a trying boi (I haven’t got it all but I know things will go well no doubt cos no dulling) I give her stuffs in my own little way and she appreciates. Now what I want to know is what should I say? She cried all through the night singing some gospel songs asking God for Wisdom!!! OMG I felt pain deep down inside me. All I told her was "Do whatever pleases you" She asked me if I still loved her and I said yes, (Lords knows this to be true), she then proceeds to tell me that she doesn’t love the dude that it’s me that she loves but she was persistent on this question about what she should do. I haven’t told her nothing cos' I'm in a confused state as well. I dunno if she thinks I aint serious bout our relationship or something. Please folks I need your contributions to this Issh , I've got ma Project to tidy, some other academic issues to attend to and an emotional setback is the last thing I need right now on ma list. Plus I've never had a broken relationship all ma L I F E.
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