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Isn't Love At First Sight Infatuation?

"love at first sight" is a common phrase! A lot of people believe that you can see someone and at the same spot fall in love with that person! I think you're only attracted to the person, for if you don't see that person in say two weeks you forget how the person even looks!

Love is something you learn like you learn a, b , c and so on! tell me what you think!

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you can be attracted to someone at first sight but I wouldnt say its love.I dont believe love comes in a flash.Ive not really experienced it though some people have earlier said they have,but sincerely I dont believe in love at first sight.I can be attracted to you but not love you at first sight.

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Love at first sight is more of Lust than love itself.

U see a pretty lady or Handsome guy, u start feeling some kinda nasty sensation / chemistry (even from afar).

You meet the person and u guys just gel well. Next thing, sex until una tire and the whole so-called love disappears becos there was never a foundation for ya love.

Love involves a lot of discipline Jare.

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Love at first sight? hmmm. . .not in for it. i believe love progresses on its own and takes time. Sure love can hit you anytime, but it takes time for you to recognize it and to make sure its real love, not just contemporary love or love of the moment.

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There can never be love at first sight, it is naturally and technically impossible

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Or even attraction at first sight.

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I think that phrase should be changed to infatuation at first sight.

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I feel that when u see the person, initial attraction begins - then that is what leads to love cause am sure u have to be attracted first before it turns to love abi?

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i belive love at first sight exists

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Big Thumbs up for ur post bro.

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i dont believe in luv at first sight.

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For me, it's infatuation, love is a gradual thing, you dont come across someone on the street and fall in LOVE at a mere sight, I think it's infatuation and not love.

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love does not emanate from sight, but from the heart.

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" Love @ 1st site " really do exist,

the fact dat some people have not experienced it doesn't mean it dont exist,

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I met a girl last year in a biirthday party, we spoke a couple of times on the phone b4 we lost contact. But i still have this strong feeling for her that ive not had for anyother woman. Unlike me, the thought of having sex with her didnt come to my mind.

So, i think love at first sight really works. Cos for me, there is no way i can develop love for somebody i dont love at first sight. I tried it b4, and it was a waste of time.

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love @ first sight a.k.a "the flesh"

for me i believe its a physical attraction and if genuinely pursued can blossom into love. shikena!

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well , a couple of yrs back & i'd have said what rubbish; but now i believe, really do believe that there's such a thing as love @1st sight 'cos i've been a victim and even though i never had the chance to xpress my feelings, never got the opportunity to share even a single special moment with that girl ,

but 4 yrs and countin, the image of her face still holds my heart like a vise , the memory of her presence still looms large over my horizon like tenses in present form , thots have her have become as much of a feature of my day as words ,

now tell me, if after 4yrs and still countin, i'm still as passionate, 'bout some1 i'm probably never ever gonna see again in my lifetime, as i know i am; is it infatuation or is it lust? tell me ,

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At first sight could be the love of God but not love the way you mean it.

That's mostly infatuation and love of the physical body. It's very common these days and that's why our relationships dont last again

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love is a feeling that comes from the heart

do u mean love can come from the heart "at first sight"?

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love is a feeling that comes from the heart

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there will be attraction at firs sight and love may grow from there

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