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It's Two Weeks Now, Is It Not Too Early To Tell Her How I Feel About Her?

she's averagely beatiful on the outside, but very beautiful inside. The first time i was engaged in discussion with her, it was great! i wanted more, to talk to her. i 've been calling and seeing her sometimes at her work place whenever i'm coming home from work. No doubt i like her, but as time passes, i like her more, should i tell her how i feel now, or give her little time, maybe for the mutual feelings to be estblished.

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You don't have to say a thing, I have always believed that actions speak louder than words.

Your desire to be around her and making more time for her, should show that she's on your mind. As she becomes more comfortable with your presence, you can slowly start to display feelings of affection. This doesn't mean you should lean in for a kiss, it means just hinting, maybe compliment her and just be natural, you really can't go wrong - just don't assume she's on the same wavelength as you.

After monitoring her responses, you can tell her how you feel or ask her on a date (depending on the responses).

What I'm also thinking is that you don't tell her how you feel, you simply observe how she responds. This is because many girls will only agree to date you because you're interested in them, even if their not interested in you - some people just love playing monopoly too much. I'm guessing you don't want to date someone who's not interested in you and will waste your time so, if she doesn't respond positively then it is much safer for you to slow things down and not to put all your eggs in one basket. She's either pre-occupied with some more important business or just not interested in dating you.

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Hello Tope baby, I know that we just met, but I can't fight these feelings I have for you. It's doing me like water and garry inside my belly. I think you are a very beautiful person with a cute smile. I like your pretty eyes. I would like to hang out sometime and maybe go to the park to get to know more about you. I apologize if this sounds really awkward, I just wanted to let you know how I feel about you.

Pansy!

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Haba, after two weeks?  You're coming on too strong bro.  Why not just show her you're interested in building a relationship with her by asking her out on a date.  First make her comfortable.  Maybe in 5 months you can begin sharing tales of love in tokyo.

Biko don't tell her.

Trust me guy, girls love a bit of mystery. Do the opposite of what these things are telling you. It will make her more curious.

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Tell her jor. . .

What are you waiting for? Love, Like, Infatuation, Obsession blah blah blah etc

No time for dulling! Even if u don't 'say' it, try to 'tell' her through any other means. But if I were u, I'd tell her via 'every' means!

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Itz not too early.

Tell her!

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Give it time. Keep harbouring these feelings in your mind and heart but never blurt them out of your mouth.

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