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Ladies Are Deceitful,devilish & Could Be A Destroyer: But Why?

I'm yet to understand why the rapid rate in the deterioration & decayin of d morals of our girls/ladies of this generation. CHECK THIS: A guy which happen to be a friend to my brother have a fiancèé (a lady) and they are suppose to have their wedding in December,2009, with this pretty lady,with a decent looking face. She visited her family, and met a male family friend. It was like a reunion meeting, which later resulted into love making( I don't know what led to that ). They did this for like 2 months. Obviously, people who saw them together do raise eyebrows, but their imagination was bi-divided: <i> family friend matter. Or <ii> they are f***ing themselves. News got to my brothers' friend anyway, he investigated thoroughly & interviewed his fiancee. She lied at first, but later accede to all the allegation levelled against her & there was a tearful & pitiful confession. Was she forced? NO! Hypnotized? NO! It was only an uncontrollable urge for sex, sky-rocketed by lust. As a matter of fact, she was always pleading her fiance to be patient till the night of their wedding, which he wholeheartedly accede to. JUST IMAGINE! There are synonymus cases happening all around this age of ours. WHY IS THIS? Please share your view 2 this situation.

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hahahah GEW, God u got me cracking up here, our 9ja girls can pretend hey!!!!

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If I was in that position which I don't pray to be I'll just call it quit with the wedding, Ladies are quite dangerous handle them with causion

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I'm pretty sure that u know that women does the covering thing better, if men were that good at covering up then we wouldn't be leading the cheating table as u accused us.

Just admit it, women are good at it, though i know u are not one of them

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I understand what u are saying, but i think the game is changing now, yes men gets the accusing finger most cos we are not good at covering up, we are bad liars, women are just expert, they are good at covering up, eat and wipe mouth,

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but its the truth justwise!!!! when it comes to relationships - women are more faithful than the men, i'm not saying women dont cheat but u cant deny the fact that the men folk are more susceptible to cheating!

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@Yjay

cos women are generally perceived to be more faithful when it comes to relationships & commitment issues!

I don't think so, days are gone when anybody will believe that

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Here's my take on the issue, aint no one excusing the male in this issue, what I think the poster was harping on was the fact that the lady engaged in wilful sex with impunity considering the fact that she was about to be married, now the onus is on her to toe the other line.

Ladies get this, I can't say this enough, guys are there to rip you to shreds,to maim, to destroy, all they need is a flimsy excuse,just a certain glance,touch, look,an innuendo,suggestion, whatever and they'll come after you like a starving shark at the first scent of blood!, flee all situations that can put you in situations such as was described by the poster.Listen folks we are human, the guy could have been a real suave,debonair chap,irresistible, and no offense meant to the ladies you all know you can't resist a hunk, you know the tall dark handsome type, even those strong enough to resist still cheat in their hearts by fantasizing about being ravished by such a man, let's tell it like it is ok, ladies, men are dangerous ok, until you get that into your skull there will be no peace for you ok, most of the times what we want is simple, sex, we can live without affection but the sex thing is another issue, now for y'all ladies you may be able to live without sex but you DEFINITELY can't live without affection capisce?, so you always need someone,a girlfriend,mom,dad,sibling,boyfriend whatever to confide in. If y'all could look less into the physical attributes of a man and into what is innate in him, I personally feel 80% of your problems are finito, but of course you wont, unlike men, take a real look around you, the so called hunks and players when they choose to settle down who do they get married to? huh?, look at their wives, some of them are so simple and plain you'd think she used charms on him, but you know what? men know this, to attain

peace of mind get a lady that you can have total control over by force of your personality which could be attributable to your looks or cash and men know a beautiful woman would be a handful so he'd rather have her for a fling or girlfriend rather than a wife, but I digress, back to the issue at hand, guys,please and please know your woman inside out (though I know it's a tall order) and ladies go out with men simply not on looks or stack (not telling you to date an orangutan looking guy though,or a dirt poor loser!) because at the end of the day all we seek is peace of mind, ability to sleep at night without wondering what your spouse is up to, God! this man woman thing can't be settled this side of

heaven, !!!!?

i do agree with some of the things u've said but i totally disagree with u on the bold print - everyone seeks affection! its just natural! you just cant help it!

@poster - the topic applies to both sexes , though i agree that the girl in question messed up but i guess the reason why she gets more bashing is cos women are generally perceived to be more faithful when it comes to relationships & commitment issues!

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God!!! who is engaged here? the man?, this is not abt who she slept with, its abt a lady who is engaged.sleeping around,

.if the man was the one engaged and slept with another woman, i will be on his case as well.

I don't know wat u are going on about here.

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couldn't he have said No?

My Point: Two pple were involved in this act and I don't see any reason

why one party should be singled out and tagged a scapegoat.

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i'm not defending him, i'm basically saying that the lady should know better, she is engaged, even if the man forced her into it, Why did she not say no? Tell him off, i mean , u telling me that she can't resist him? What were she thinking?

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who's engaged to a member of a family to which he's a friend?

Atleast, defend him with points even a 6 months old tot would swallow without asperity.

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The man is not engaged or getting married soon, the lady is and shldn't be cheating, the man may not even know that the lady is engaged.

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it's not worth the title, how about the man is he not deceitful, devilish and could be a destroyer, oh wait he already destroyed the marriage

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I would have responded but you didnt use paragraphs.

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Ladies defend yourselves now or never!!!

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yeah im a lady, but all you said here are notin but the real truth.

Thanks for this.

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ladies deceitful, devillish?!! destroyers?!!

wow!! i wonder what the devil is?

to me ladies are tender and soft. my heart goes boom boom when i c the lady i love.

ladies are what the sociey made them to be.

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Ladies and men are not the culprit.The real culprit is the Society and the media.The media sells,hypes,advertises and portrays sex as the norms that even the society as embraced it since we human interact with the society we embrace it also.The media portrays mr right as someone who nails all the chic and never gets caught and the big lady having sex with people.Also to original poster dude pls what with generalizing that's so lame.

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now that we are back to the way the lawd created us, wats new with u?

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Hmmmm. Let me back off.

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whew! at least u didn't call me a dog, that shoulda hurt

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Why do you have to call women those names? have you forgotten they gave birth to you?

I guess they might have hurt you

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You are such a MAN!!! No pun intended

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aawww, i was just making sure u know where and how it hurts (the heart thingy is a bonus though)

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oh, i am just saying, if a guy cheats on u, all the world will hear it

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Tanx @ all, 4 ur contributions. @biola44; d guy was traumatized, shattered & displaced psychologically, even till now. They finally departed 4 gud. I'm sorry, sincerely, 4 using a generalized sentence,that was my bad. About d dual involvement{ i.e, a guy + a lady }, I believe, having a critical & intensive understanding about one's nature is very important to thrive well in LIFE. Pardon me 4 saying dis ladies, but 4rm most of my observations, I discovered that MOST females has a higher level of workability or flexibility, relative 2 their male counterparts. When u av d right tool, their mind set can be shape into whatever u want. Just like a yoruba adage, that says "d FLOOD doesn't care about collapsing d building, but it's d LANDLORD dat won't give it d chance". I ain't no an ANTI-FEMINIST, but a realist. I respect d female gender a lot, but I just can't cope with wot most of 'em are doin now. Guys are like hungry lions browsing 4 an 'unguarded' prey. 2 all ladies out there, be on guard against the hungry guys & may be u cn regain or rekindle ur TRUST in me & all other good guys in d society. U CAN DO IT!!!

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Tell me why that's a good thing again?

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the real problem is when devilish, deceitful people of either sex, trick partners who are their opposites, into marrying them.

Ogbologbos should date and marry ogbologbos like themselves. But no, them no fit gree that one.

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Ladies get this, I can't say this enough, guys are there to rip you to shreds,to maim, to destroy, all they need is a flimsy excuse,just a certain glance,touch, look,an innuendo,suggestion, whatever and they'll come after you like a starving shark at the first scent of blood!, flee all situations that can put you in situations such as was described by the poster.Listen folks we are human, the guy could have been a real suave,debonair chap,irresistible, and no offense meant to the ladies you all know you can't resist a hunk, you know the tall dark handsome type, even those strong enough to resist still cheat in their hearts by fantasizing about being ravished by such a man, let's tell it like it is ok, ladies, men are dangerous ok, until you get that into your skull there will be no peace for you ok, most of the times what we want is simple, sex, we can live without affection but the sex thing is another issue, now for y'all ladies you may be able to live without sex but you DEFINITELY can't live without affection capisce?, so you always need someone,a girlfriend,mom,dad,sibling,boyfriend whatever to confide in. If y'all could look less into the physical attributes of a man and into what is innate in him, I personally feel 80% of your problems are finito, but of course you wont, unlike men, take a real look around you, the so called hunks and players when they choose to settle down who do they get married to? huh?, look at their wives, some of them are so simple and plain you'd think she used charms on him, but you know what? men know this, to attain peace of mind get a lady that you can have total control over by force of your personality which could be attributable to your looks or cash and men know a beautiful woman would be a handful so he'd rather have her for a fling or girlfriend rather than a wife, but I digress, back to the issue at hand, guys,please and please know your woman inside out (though I know it's a tall order) and ladies go out with men simply not on looks or stack (not telling you to date an orangutan looking guy though,or a dirt poor loser!) because at the end of the day all we seek is peace of mind, ability to sleep at night without wondering what your spouse is up to, God! this man woman thing can't be settled this side of heaven, !!!!?

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I'm not commending the lady or supporting what she did. . .but let's look at the finger pointing from another point of view. . .so the guy that slept with her is a "player" just because he's a dude. . .

Now I can't stand ignorant peeps like you!

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[glow=pink,2,300]another woman bashing thread[/glow]

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