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Ladies: Are You Happy With The Men In Your Lives?

Ladies! Are you happy with the men in your lives? (Husband, lovers or whatever!)

Does he 'turn you on?' Or off!

Could he be more loving?

Is he a riot in bed? Or does HE have the headache?

What do you think of men in general?

What would they need to do to improve their standing in your eyes?

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yes im happy with the man in my life

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What is African role for women that is different from the western ideas?. Same wine in new bottle if you ask me.

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@topup I understand your point of view and totally agree.

and pls don't listen to david. to me, a lot of his rhetoric are just reiterations of the same old african role of women. sit and look pretty and the "mature" men will come to you. lol I don't agree with women being objects for some guy to show off to his friends.

and definitely don't cheapen urself by joining some silly rat race. lol

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ANd topup, in addition to add to that I hope being a woman of strict virtue is not all you have to offer. Guys need more than a serious robot.  The good, intelligent men who want their minds stimulated by your boasted maturity would also appreciate it if you have sex appeal and a good sense of humor.

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And what exactly have you done to make yourself available to these men?

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Topup: "Hehe, I guess David must have solved the problem, women are single because they are not attractive enough. I guess only the immature guys really do care about personality and character. (Maybe I should lower my age limit!!)"

No, I understood, that was sarcasm, hence the 'hehe' (because I don't take it seriously), it isn't true, but it was what he implied.

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I am very happy with my guy.

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She's still a teenager, she has plenty of time to grow. I think the folks falling over themselves to compliment her on the long long "romantic" thesis she constantly writes has gone to her head.

That's basically silly . . . mature men too are concerned about personality and character but the COLD HARD TRUTH is that personality and character alone cannot suffice. If you dont look good no one will come closer to understand your character. You can be as holy as the pope . . . if you're not presentable you'll be single . . . end of story.

A man wants to be able to show his bride off to his friends (even if subconsciously) . . . that is the way we are made, it has nothing to do with being immature.

Can someone pls define "mature" for me? Everyone seems to be throwing that word carelessly around these days.

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Very happy with my hubby.

Happy with my male relatives too.

Lots of ladies on NL expect too much from men.

I want to believe most are still very young and still fantasizing.

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Yeah,am happy with the guys i have in my family.

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They are not excuses, the question is that "are you happy with the men in your lives." I don't currently have a specific man in my life, and I haven't stated that I am trying to 'hook' one, so I can't be specific. Why must it be 'my' problem. I'm the one who is not doing enough. In my response I stated that the 'bad' ones don't have any incentive to become better guys, they can go from girl to girl, because there is such a shortage of guys, there is not much competition, that just about any guy qualifies as a suitable boyfriend for most girls here.

(b) I'm not looking in places, I'm looking in hearts!! LOL.

Hehe, I guess David must have solved the problem, women are single because they are not attractive enough. I guess only the immature guys really do care about personality and character. (Maybe I should lower my age limit!!)

I'm still searching for the COLD and HARD facts, but thanks for trying to point them out to me.

Back atcha!!

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Really?I Havent heard that b4 ooo.Just want to , thats all.but if you mind , no qualms.so do u?

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@babyme

Can I meet ya?

Mikky

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uhuh, he doesnt like queens tho, he likez the normall gay guys

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@yep pretty much my ex is a duesche,my boyfriend is cool!! wat more do i need, oh yeah n my boyfriend likes gay people,

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@ TOP UP David and C2 have both said all what there is to be said. Those are the cold hard facts.

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Look lets not paper over facts . . .

1. how old are you really? Not more than 19 by my recollection so the guys around you will be that age too. Expecting an 18-20 yr old boy is responsible enough for a mature relationship is wide off the mark. Let the guys grow, give yourself time to meet mature men IN THE FUTURE. Relationship now is not by force o.

2. If you are physically attractive enough, the REAL MATURE MEN older than you will come. That is basic.

A lot of women are (no offense intended) not attractive enough to get the mates they truly desire. Men are like animals, we go for the mates that catch our eye not the one that acts like a saint.

Truth be told, an overly mature woman isnt a turn on at all . . . most men dont want another mother in their lives.

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The men in my life, are behaving just the way anybody in their position would behave. There is one man for every 5 girls where I work, and so even the ones with the personalities that need work on, are not maturing, and they have no need to, some women will 'take' them just as they are.

There is no pressure to act responsibly which therefore makes me look elsewhere, which gives the impression that I think I'm too good for them, since I am not in the rat race with the other girls.

Don't get me wrong, there are still some wonderful guys, but as for the number of these guys; it's really limited.

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babbootz. not all guys are the way u've experienced. u only get the worst when u expect the worst.

nywz,keep the sweet mind always opened

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Not at the moment!

I found out things very disappointing things. It can be hard to accept that somone you love is not what you thought they were and everything about them is a lie.

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Nl boys hates nl girls.Nl girls hates nl boys.I can't open a thread here without someone bashing the opposite sex and poo.Not healthy it's real messed up.

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apart 4rm d dudes in my immediate familywhich smtyms i 1nda weda we r truly related

dd opp sex sucks 4 now, i knw its a phase n i pray it passes soon n thy ol go bk 2 normal human beingsi hope

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noooooooooooooo, nooooooooooooooo,

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Its not sad; she spoke her opinion.

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