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Ladies, Can Any Of You Give Green Light?

A female friend of mine that works with of the new generation banks there in Naija jokingly told me some days ago that she really likes one of their regular male clients,but she didn't know how to start with the guy. The girl is just 24 and she graduated 4rm uni some two years ago. She said she always feel gud and excited whenever the said guy came to her office, but unable to express her feelings. Mind you, she's damn pretty, but most shy fellow i hav ever come across.

I told her to discuss it with her female friends, she said they would laugh at her, and that her problem is how she would eventually feel if the guy in question is not interested or already married.

Ladies can you dare make the first move to stylishly approach a guy? Any clue?

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i had a beauty once. and it was the longest relationship i had which was for almost 4 years. it started out with an outright unsolicited kiss from patti. the rest as they say is history. people differ. the guy in question might just stiffen up and ask what a heck. let her drop some hints on his trail if he fails to catch them he may also forget her birthday when they start dating.

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@ Mr. cork; How true is that?

And don't you know better than talkin abt Nyansh all day long? I pray they don't suffocate u wit Nyansh one of these days,

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Ladies always giv Green lights with there Nyansh when they walk (CNN News: 1978)

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@double08,you are right on the green then RED light thing.@spyker.yes'o.I was thinking the same thing!if the gurl is not been"tormented"by the figures that flash on her pc screen or that which she might have gotten wind of,let her make the move.simple questions like:how is your wife and children can and will over time or instantly make the man take a hard second look at her.everyone likes someone who cares.it has worked for me and is still working.it will for her and you.

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@double08.

U are quite right.

meanwhile some girls will give you green light and then when you make a move they will shine red light,like a faulty traffic light, damn!!!

Just imagine such chagrin

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Simple answer, tell her to leave the damn man. Never mix business with pleasure.

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In some cases even if you flash the kit cat they still will not geddit.

@ Ebonyeyes; Don't u think those that seemed not to geddit tend to ignore in order to respect themselves?

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Som are color blind. . . let her tell him straight.

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Whatever happened to communication via phones. She can catch the guys attention just by calling and if he is interested, she might fix a meeting during weekends when she won't be in duty.

There are many ways of getting his number especially if she works in a babe.

NOTE: Hope she is not in love with his account since she is privilege to know its balance.

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d babe should go ahead and excuse d guy on 1 of his visits and tell him.though she might look cheap but its beta than silence(cause it kills softly)

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tell your friend to not take that risk because that guy just might turn out to be a person who will report such a thing which will result in her loosing her job most especially if he is married. Her boses will not want to here about how she did nothing wrong coming on to a client all they will care about is loosing a regular customer.

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