Most Women will not, only a few would.
Whats your take ladies?
I had a girl that always wanted to pick up the tab anywhere we went. I can remember our first date me and the girl nearly fight gidigbo for Barcelos. Basically that was how she rolled and after meeting quite a few INEC (I neva chop) broads it was hard to adjust to strugglin with her to pay for dates the girl put the I in Independent. Anyway i'd not take a girl on a first date to a place i can't afford so paying is no issue
^^I really can't put it in words. But the thought makes me cringe, honestly.
Subsequent dates, mayyybe. . . .like his birthday or something, lol.
But a first date?? I'm sure I wldnt be the one to suggest it anyway, so why pay for smthn suggested by another person?
If I'm in a relationship, I can give him treats every now and then, but generally, the tabs shd be picked by him! Sue me.
If I asked the guy out (which I've never done), then I'd kind of expect to foot the bill. Or like in an emergency if the guy for some reason couldn't pay (rejected card or something), fine. Or if it's a guy I've been friends with for a while but its our first date, if he paid for the movie, I might say its my treat for a casual meal.
I always offer to split the bill, anyway, as I think it's only fair to do that, and although I wouldn't normally expect to pay the entire bill on the first date, I could (although it doesn't necessarily leave the best first impression of the guy).
bac in sch(6 yrs bac): took dis girl out wit mi frnd, she ate, n also asked for "take away for her 2 roomies". i had 2 track 2 kilo bac to mi hood.
08 in albion: she asked to take me to a shop, i ended up paying 10 p for d "kind walk"
09: got mi first ice cream date here in lagos.
and this one paid, so i decided to make it final.
conclusion: niger chicks never pays, anywhere in d world, except dey re paying for u to pay d ultimate price.
With modern woman, Both persons should pay their own way. Think of it like an outing with colleges or co workers.
Chivary is a thing of the past. In the old days, the man would pay, but the women would make a nice home cooked meal for the guy to show him she is a good home maker. But those days are gone.
If you go out with a woman that expects you to pay for everything, be careful this is a trap. She will get you to cater to her needs and empower herself over you. You will look down between your legs and you manhood will be replaced with a big mangina.
Oh so after the meal, you find out say bobo no carry enough, u'll get up and walk out of the place?
No my dear, you will save both of you the embarassment and pay up, thats if you have enough yourself.
After that its up to you if you want to delete his number off your phone or pick up the phone the next time he calls you or not,
Its not such a big deal really, i once went for a date (first time) with a friend,we went out for a meal and when it was time to pick the tab, there was a problem with his card and he couldnt pay or get any money out., i ended up footing the bill, (altho at the time i thot he was just playing a fast one on me),
On our second date, he went all out (obviously to make up for the previous embarassment) and over the six years we were together, he turned out to be the most giving and generous man i have ever been with,