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Ladies Can You Marry A Guy Younger Than You Are?

If you as a lady finds out that all the guys you meet are always younger, would you go ahead to get married to one of them?

How would you cope with been humble at all times, when you can be sure that any ill move could be counted as being superior?

How would the guy's family also relate to you on seeing you as older?

Is it a thing of the mind or it doesn't matter in the world we are in anymore?

What age difference would be seen as extreme? Five years?

Candid opinion, please!

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well for me ooooooooooooo i can't do such a thing

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Wife u call it now, no be girlfriend. Though i know of some too who are actually married to older women, but how many girls will actually allow it materialise than to get to that koko place and then look for an issue later on and then bail out

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I doubt if 9ija girls wld do that.

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plat dis is a question 4 ya!

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As a guy can you marry a lady that is much more older than you?

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I dnt mean that and u know. I dey go house and guys wey get mouth like you, no get action.(i wasnt referring to you ooo) anyways, takia of urself.xxxxx

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have another goy on NL, who is pressing hard oo. I can't feel you and want to

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is true age is jst a number. but if one is dating a younger guy and the girl is mature for marriage while the guy is not ready it it advisable for the girl to wait for him? they are very in love with each other.

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@nethacker

Ohhh! So u can dig hard? Didn't get that better until now. Good you can dig, but definitely don't dig 6 feet.

Kip digging but don't allow your back grow stiff and become rigid for the productive years.

Why you dey hide from me and prefer to do public love for me?

Anyways, soon.

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@lemonpluss,u r very right but some babes never know this oooo.

@bamboke,do u agree?

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If u really want 2 be dig 24/7 younger guys are good becos their body is still full of action but if u dont really need dat older guys are good,becos they have too many things on their mind,but they are very good in pampering their babes wit gifts and attention.

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Why not? 2 me there's nothing wrong in it, as long as the guy is matured enough 2 handle a relationship. And come to think of it, the older ladies seem to be more mature and cool headed, than those 'teenagers' who think they have the world at their feet (no offence intended!).

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@ post,

Given the opportunity, i'd love to marry a lady older than me. There's NO problem wif it na?

If i were say, 50 years, and i met a young lady i were REALLY interested in, it'll be one-heck of a mountain to climb (wif her family n all) but it'd be worth it in the end, i hope!!

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Easier said than done, I would say!

Guys, most of you can not do it.

Good to go out with such ladies, but to make them wives, you bolt!

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Age is just a number,so far the guys physical apperance look mature,no prob.

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@bamboke,

Are you looking for a reson to marry a younger person?to your question,is no big deal.

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@omofola

Good for u and may your hope and dreams come to reality.

@nethacker

May your dreams and hope come to pass too.

Cheers!

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@nethacker

Amen and thanks for the prayer

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Y not,

I am involved with a guy i'm 3 years older than presently, i don't know if it will lead to marriage but if it does then so be it,  i respect him a lot and he respects me too as a woman, the age thing is not something we even remember talkless of discuss about, he cares about my feelings a lot and takes very good care of me and i do care about him too, so i think dating a younger guy is all about understanding , maturity  and respect from both couples, luckily for me i look a lot younger than my age.

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@house, i am like 28yrs and i must confess dat i am in love with the poster(i mean bamboke), pls help me beg her

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When i was 22yrs old i was so much in love with a lady of 26yrs of age,apperantly she also

love me but refrain from the shame of asking me out, whenever she sees me with another

girl she always pry and upset about it,she buy me stuff, invites me to her house  but  my

feelings keeps giving me presure to ask  her out, but am a knid of shy guy.thinking that

she is too old for me. and i lose her dnt even have her contact anymore. now am looking

for such oppurtunity again.

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Blushing!!!!!!!!

Thank you.

Ina so'n ka!!!!!!

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There is nothing wrong is marrying someone older(i.e is if one is mentally and emotionally capable of doing so).

To all ladies saying No, Which one do you prefer? marrying someone who acts years below his age or one who acts years above his age?

By The Way, Age they say is in numbers.

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I am sure you guys, nethacker and Ifeleke, have actually had to go out with older ladies. They are talking from experience.

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@ poster

I don't wana say neva but i don't see myself going there. I have neva dated a guy younger than me or the same age with me, its something i'm just not comfortable with, But hey who knows!!!

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@ibkaye, Never let the future disturb you. You will meet it, if you have to, with the same weapons

of reason which today arm you against the present.”

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Not something I am comfortable with, but who knows.

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it's not a problem if thre is genuine love and understanding, just read proverbs 31 and get ur families blessings

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To me no probs, I think I prefer older ladies.Well , talking abt respect , if u r a xtian read wat the bible said abt husband and wife.No matter how old or rich u r, u must respect ur husband,try proverbs 31:10 . I think such situation is coming up here too ,

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Ladies Can You Marry A Guy Younger Than You Are?

there is noting bad in that

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2 moi age should't be d probs, as long as his loadded upstair i.e IQ = normal

if only he does not act his age he should be able 2 handle pressure from his family members

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C'mon grow up! There are other more important things to look for in a marriage/relationship.

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