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Ladies, Do You Play Hard To Get?

A lot of ladies play hard to get and generally make us guys go through a lot of trouble to prove ourselves even when they are secretly, deep down crazy in love with the guy. Take for instance this girl my pal had been toasting but was fronting for my guy. One day he finds her diary and reads it, to his greatest surprise his name is all over her diary as the love of her life. Turns out she was crazy about but was acting quite the opposite. Ladies, do you front? if so, why?

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iice, dnt act like U didnt sound offended, now what ur pulling actually tells what the thread is all about, playing hard to get. Be soft on EYO, Am dead serious. Whats ur msn or YIM. U can email it to creamboy12@yahoo.com

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Men are hunters, they like the chase.

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But then, some ladies take d thing too far ooo. Make guy toast girl for 10 months, yes, she no talk; no she no talk. she just put the guy for "is coming". Haba, e shanu aje. Owo oniru, owo oniyo lo fi ra aso to wo now. Have mercy.

sometimes it is fun

just kidding o

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stephen, reverse is the case based on what she said.

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I believe she said "beyond your planet" lol

@topic, I like a woman who plays hard to get and is good at it.

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iice, what makes u think u are below my planet?lol, Cmon gurl brace ur ego up and make a brother feel ur untouchable. U getting the opposite of what u claimed right? Thats cus ur claim makes it obvious that ur inferior, u be the kind gurl wey go form so tey, when person see u in person, u go wowo die!! Ur just intelligent, thats one thing I observe bout u now.

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I don't see what d big deal is. Why should u play hard to get. It's either u are interested or not. If u like d chap, but u aint ready to date him cos u wanna know him more, then tell him straight as it is. Tell him u prefer to be his friend while u watch how things go. If you don't like him and u dont wanna go ahead with it, then tell him as nicely as u can. No point trying to be difficult or playing hard to get.

A lot of babes give guyz d wrong impression by fronting. Most guyz believe that when a lady says NO then she means yes secretly . . . rubbish

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Even prostitutes diz dayz are d most difficult to get in friendship cuz they believe in there world and neva will like any standard guy who must always question their way-abouts.They always like being free from intimate relationship to avoid querry from whom it may concern.CYANIDER.

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Every rational being gotta put lot of things into thought before u agree to a relationship.

You don't just jump into it like a hired cab.

I won't play hard to get if i like you, but i gotta think deep first.

some of my male friends think am a bouncer, but heck my no will always be no if the clique isn't there.

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iice, I have had the same thought about u being a difficult person to get, my thoughts dnt get me wrong, never seen ur pic, dnt know nada bout u, but seeing ur posts attimes gives me that impression. U must be a hottie.

Anyway, if gurl no form for me, I no go lyk am, bt if the forming becomes too much, I go free sharp sharp.

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girlz who play hard 2 get ar only tryin 2 investigate if d guy has money 2 spend nd if he can pound dem so hard. (N.B. ask a lady 2 define a real man).

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Wedas bein dificult,playin had2get r formin-2me its imatur.gals jus b sincere&open abt ur feelins&d matur guy wil get it

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To me,i dont feel any girl is hard to get,if u drop ur lines well n play u dubb smoothly,she go fall.Except u no get dem lyrics.Some people will say a girl is hard to get,whereas a guy from d other end de high her seriously.Guys abeg,run shows wit d babe,if she no gree,then u blank.NO FALL UR HAND

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iice, I gota have u, where iz u located hottie?

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To me, no lady plays hard to get. It all depends on the approach from the guy' end. I prefer being friendly, show her how I care for her and allow every other intimate move to come from her. Thats all.

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Wat i know is dis,let all ladies seek God 4 wisdom and revelatn 2 see right man wen he comes.Not every time u'll b using ur understandin abt men 2 play hard on dem. Ðere are still men out there who hav not defile demselves

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The thing here is that when we ladies do not play hard to get, most men will think that we are cheap prostitutes. . . Even seeing the number of threadsaround here saying that girls whom give in easily are cheap has said it all. . . And when we play hard to get, you guys also dey complain. What do you want from us by the way? It seems to me that everything a lady has to do is always wrong.

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Pardon me, I think it is just Nigerian women. Americans are not like that, neither are Arabs. If they love you, no need to make forms.

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I rily don't c anytin wrong wit d ladies playing hard to get, as long as they don't over-do it. Some av lost their soul mates due to excess forming.

Too much of anytin is baaad. . .

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I don't play hard to get but I am just principled. I guess some guyz mistake dat as playing hard to get by assuming all ladies form. Anyway, I alwayz prove dem wrong by maintaining my NO till the end. :-D

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love this topic and this thread yu guys in here are doing a great job

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we want u ladies to mello, u know just be average instead of taking it too far

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if we dont play hard you guys will say we are cheap, if we play hard you guys will end up saying we form too much.Wetin una want make we do now

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Its not playing hard to get. We are just trying to be reasonable & down to earth.

Reason:

1. We are not sure how serious you are at the beginning. We'd like to remind ourselves to keep our head cool & steady in case it doesn't work out. We won't feel that bad.

2. We don't want to be seen as too eager & desperate. We also don't want the guys to be too overly eager. It makes us go 'eeeewwwwwwwwwww, !' & run the opposite way as fast as our legs can carry us. I think the guys would do the same if a girl comes on too strong. We don't even know each other yet, don't profess to get the moon for us!! Give each other some space.

3. In my opinion, we don't want to be taken for granted & treated like doormats. How would you feel if you get to pay EVERY time? Or you're expected to be at beck & call?

4. We are all putting our pride on the line in love. Its a huge emotional risk for us all. Some are risk takers, some aren't.

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Well i like playing hard to get i enjoy the attention and the looks of need on the guys face. dats why i still play hard to get on my man till date, If he wants to touch me i go take style form small even though i am dying for him to continue. Well, it make like for intense for me and i like it so. Dat me though other ladies might be different. Tk

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Well i like playing hard to get i enjoy the attention and the looks of need on the guys face. dats why i still play hard to get on my man till date, If he wants to tocuh me i go take style form small even though i am dying for him to continue. Well, it make like for intense for me and i like it so. Dat me though other ladies might be different. Tk

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@ rilla64: I don't keep a diary.

But, some things are pretty private, and need to be respected.

A diary's one of those things.

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@ Siena: You must love your diary. Did I say he read her diary? Oh, silly me. It was the trick questionnaire on CRUSH007.COM.

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@ ikamefa: im not generalizing, after all ive met a lot of girls who have said yes instantly. Though it makes you wonder if they say yes to all the other guys or could it be am just so fly?

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well to me some will treat u bad if u show them that u can't do without them and the will find the lady to be too cheap ,smone said if u like a guy and he aproach u accept himjust like that. this is not about been inmature is about reality, let him work hard toget wat he want afterall the said anything worth having is worth working hard for, so is not a big deal

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well, i love freebies but i'lll think again and again if i got a girl on the cheap. i 'd like to work to get a girl especially someone i really like.

if na babe wey i just wan follow play tente i no go even worry myself.

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