Just my curious mind. Ladies, who among these men will you likely choose as a husband. An average guy with a good car & a nice apartment. Faithful and God fearing. Respectful and supportive of you in your chosen career. Who can afford to take you out to the movie or indulge you once in a while. Has a great family value & respect for the family institution. Is intelligent, good looking, romantic, adventurous, great sense of humour and above all, loves you like there will be no tomorrow. He has a listening ear to your problems and always have a handy advice cum suggestions whenever you need one and spends quality time with you.
Or this other guy very rich irrespective of where the money came from, throws you a lavish birthday bash, sends you to the UK every summer, wants you to be a stay at home mum because he doesn't trust you won't cheat, is a chronic womanizer, doesn't pray with you or believe in prayers, is not always around, buys you a 4x4, and is just marrying you not necessarily because he is crazily in love with you but because you are beautiful. He gets his female callers calls right under your nose with little regards how you'd feel about it? And is always out with the boys while African Magic remains your only companion.
NB: Please guys, pardon me if this topic or anything near it has been treated before. Sometimes the search doesn't just leave so much to desire.