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The guy you gave a NO when he asked you out is dating your best friend! How will you feel gurl?

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ThoniaSlim.

r u a victim?

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@ stillwater

Dats my gurl.

some gals jst can bring themselves to accept the fact that if they reject a guy some one else wants him.

@thoniaslim

Do u mean u've never met any of ur friends guy that u secretly wished was urs instead of your friends? the difference is that frm the guys judgement, he probably thought he had a better chance wit ur friend than with u hence he dcides to go for her.

If its aguy thats ot going to be serious even with u , his opting for ur friend shuld even b a welcom dev cos then he wont b ur headache anymore

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why u dey wori the guy?

no be u say no? abi na early sakara be that? no u dey complain and wory.

leave that guy alone

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its a free world i guess

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The point is you said No. He has no obligation or commitment to you. He can do whatever he pleases. Moaning over the fact that he's dating her when you used your own mouth to decline his proposal is senseless to me, sorry. It's the best friend however that ought to be wary of the kind of guy he is. He might not really love her. Could be he's just using her to make you mad. That's her palava.

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no ill feelings atal, cos one mans meat is another mans poison

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@ThoniaSlim,

I'm sorry but, they weren't going out B4. they got nothing going b4, he asked her out and she politely said NO.Then the bloke moves on and tried his luck with another girl who happens to be her friend.

I ask again, whats wrong with that?

These 2 girls are not sisters, they got different choice when it comes to men and they both made their choices, one said NO and the other said YES, hun?

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One man's tragedy is another man's opportunity.

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@thoniaslim

Thanks lady. Good talk!

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Feel about what? Don't they deserve their happiness ?

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u cant eat ur cake and have it. u said No cos of pride or maybe he is not ur kinda man .but he finds someone that likes him the way he is and happens to be ur friend LET THEM BE, like the old saying goes ONE MANS FOOD IS ANOTHER MAN'S POISON. guess u don't have a choice

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I ADVICE YOU LEAVE THEM ALONE .

1) SHE MIGHT LOVE HIM, YOU TELLING HER MIGHT BE TRYING TO SPOIL HER RELATIONSHIP,

2) TELL HER HE ASKED YOU OUT BUT YOU SAID NO, CUS HE MIGHT TELL HER SOON, YOU DONT WANT YOUR FRIEND TO FEEL YOU BETRAYED HER DO YOU ?

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So the world is so small it's the 'friend' that you happened to find next. People should be honest with themselves!

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Keep ur nose out of it. u said NO to him, she saw something u did not see. Be happy for them or backoff

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@biola44

Na bad thing you see oh LOL!!!

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