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Ladies, How Would You Want To Be Approached?

Ladies, my simple question is this?

How would you like to be approached?

Why am I asking?

Let me paint you a picture - I'm walking down the road and see this lovely girl, beautyful, walking glamorously towards me. She walks tall, looks splendid in her jeans and top and looks irresistible. I want to talk to her, get to know her, be a friend, start a friendship (but all platonic mind you, I am speaking for myself o!). What do I do that wont turn her off or reek of desperate young man?

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I want to catch a bus and I stroll down to the bus stop & see same girl above also waiting? What to do?

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I walk into an eatery or a supermarket and see same beauty. . . what to do?

So ladies, what would you want me to do? or any other guy for that matter? Assuming we cant take our eyes off & just keep quiet. Yeah, I know curiosity killed the cat!

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A lot! Go back and read it . . . don't worry no one will post anything.

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should have left the thread as is, stephen

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ROFL!! It's funny how this thread took a weird and "tragic" turn.

@Onyinye, I was sure you'd take them seriously . . . and you did. Anyone could have seen it wasn't that serious and they weren't really into you. It's just one of those things. Plus, wasn't it you that said you got a boyfriend?

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David and studentetc apologized!

Oyinye, they're sorry jare, dnt mind them

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Def messed up this thread. .

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small minds . . . too bad that's all we have to deal with here.

Cant take a joke, cant be rational, assume noise making is a way to flex silly muscles.

What a mighty shame. Honorable names? Gimme a break.

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the topic of the thread was "Ladies, How Would You Want To Be Approached?"

now its more like "Play Play don turn to fighting/argument"

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you too student. just leave me be. you knew you had no chance. so dont even try it. now go work out your issues cause im threw. david, you know what, i dont even know the means to say to you. just leave me be.

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@david

you know just leave me be. im tired of all this jive with you. you done toying with me, then great. so can you please go and find some other young girl to taunt??

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ol boy. wake up from your slumber. who cares. Noise making doesnt move me, you shld be well aware of that by now.

zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz have some jello, now sleep.

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what did i do wrong Mesmerize??

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na wa oo dey don turn the place to 'Mind Your Language''

Orisirisi

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Oyinye, I am ashamed of you! You think I no sabi a lil spanish?

Dnt get to the level hon!

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You have a twisted meaning of what respect is.

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@student

cuál es su problema

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If you're still thinking this way, then what right do those peeps that call me a child have? when peeps like you are still arnd?

Oh boy, you need to grow! no offense

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@student

YOU NEVER HAD ME HOME BOY!!!! so there were no chances. you had no respect for me. all you wanted to do was tame me.

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Ok you people have killed this thread

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You're tired of nagging abi, you're not really tired of it

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when i started this thread i didnt know that it would generate so much heat, passion, love interests etc. I really have to play catch up. . .

I will be back. . .

davidylan are u the latest item?

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I'm the man, i say so, i play the piper you do the dancing. So hath the Lord laid down the rules.

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but why must you be the leader??

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@ Onyinye,

Da al chico grande una oportunidad de mecer su mundo.

¿Por qué juega U para conseguir duramente o es comprometido usted?

Sé que esto es justo chistes pero mantiene la persecución viva.

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that's the sound of the drum of loneliness my dear.

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BOY. . . .Sarcasm is the lowest form of wit

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Wow, 11 pages. I cant even be bothered to read it anymore

Just wanted to say I agree with

Exactly.

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What's up with the rules? A relationship is supposed to be fun not a ritual.

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Davidylan is a darling? But sweet guys like him end up being your friend (at least until you want to settle down) while you perspirate with the Dangerous guy in bed.

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Honestly Jek_kad, No!

For example I was trying to chat up a black french girl today (rated her 7/10), she was not having much of it. Slightly polite but won't drop number. I didn't even remember now (and it was just this afternoon becuase I only wanted to touch base with her) until I was racking my brain for examples.

15 mins later I was having a cocky and funny session with a Jamaican and Edo girl I met on next to my destination. Got the Edo girls number.

I can't list the last 5 girls that turned me down but I can remember the last girl I liked that turned me down.

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You are a prat!!!!!

I thunk u were with NubianQ . . . . . .What happened to that project??

Don't tell me u dumped Miss "more cushion for the pushing".

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I also heard Davidylan has already been sighted in Houston

trying to do the honour with Onyinye2

Nairalanders sure move quickly

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see as the thread don metamorphose into crushes and items. Bikonu.

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I thought it was Jackal and Stilll water that were an item.

So Lady T is on that tip too.

Orisirisi

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A bad boy will marry ONLY when he wants to. . . .

They don't get pressured into marriage like some wussies think.

You are clueless. . . .  . .Is Marriage the alpha n omega of all things. . . .

U better take advice now. . . . .Stop, look and listen when intellectuals are spewing(dont mind ma rhymez).

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Yes Hannibal for more than a decade we are still looking for Miss Right!

Better take advice!

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Jenny we will fight!

God forbid bad thing!

Hannibal is 4 foot 9!

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quite true, an educated women who works around refined men all day will not answer to 'waaaassssuuuuppp' abeg take note.

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cannibal abi na hannibal u guys berra learn how to approach a woman well ,cos all those hey and wasup wont take u anywhere,anyways there r diff types of girls and im very sure dat those dat answer to that hey and wasup are those dat lack attention

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Well Hannibal your not hot so I suggest you work on those lines or do what david does and just say HI!

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@syren

emmmmmmm syren u seee emmmm i will be happy to announce to u that stephen has got a very tough wife on this forum and she wouldnt be happy if she catches u flirting wt him clears throat

@hannibal

that one is for them mumu babes naaaaa,because someone like me wt sharp brains wont even spare a guy a glance if he just walks up to me wtout saying hello or hi

c'mon u guys should give them single girls respect ,just hello or hi will do

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What I dont like is if you have been given the brush off please brush off.  Dont come at me with more chessy loff lines.  

Play it cool a little cocky can be funny.  But telling a girl in a serious tone that you can get any girl you want pisses me off.  Makes me wonder why the hell your single in the first place Mr getwhateverIwant!

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@stephen

i thought it was completely hilarious. she had every right to. it is all about respect. if you are meeting me for the first time you gotta put on your best. "hey" is for people you see on a daily basis. but you dont see me on a daily basis so you are gonna try and prove that i should give you the time of day.

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thank God she knows u r not serious,cos no girl will even take dat kinda guy serious

those lines r good for jokes but wen it comes to d real talk,its bullshit

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